Topic: Should I take him back when he gets out of jail I'm in march | |
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My bf of 1 year living together and raising our little cheeweeny during this time was the glue that really brought us together. We had arguments as many do but he never made time for me always like he did in the first months of the year we got together. I had to go away for a month and half and while away he was on fb flirting with all women he ran across. Asking for sex and i had thought we were together before I had to go even asked when I called few times if he was being loyal. So a week after my return he gets locked up and I'm wondering if I need to just forget and move on or if he will b a changed person in march ...please help me
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I'm wondering if I need to just forget and move on or if he will b a changed person in march ...please help me Are you serious? You would be asking for trouble by staying with him. He has already shown you his true colors. Cut your losses and run. |
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I agree with David. Plus if you were asking him while you were away if he was being loyal, that shows you already sensed his disloyalty to you.
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Well I see from your profile you're doing the same thing as what your boyfriend did... looking for sex while he's away.
Best of luck to you! |
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hyy
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You already know what you're going to do. So why ask?
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They do say that the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Run forest run.
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Dump him while he is in jail, then he might get a new boyfriend in there instead.
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Most people like to get into cycles and repeat them for most of their lives.
They ask others, get good advice, don't listen, and repeat their cycles over and over. So why do you ask...? |
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But you are on Mingle and possibly other dating apps?
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Your profile says you have kids, think about them with
a (cheating) felon around. |
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Your parents must be so proud of you.
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Don't be an idiot. You need to make a serious change in your life style.
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Well I see from your profile you're doing the same thing as what your boyfriend did... looking for sex while he's away. Best of luck to you! THIS ^^^^^^^ AND THIS You already know what you're going to do. So why ask?
At your age you should know the answer too, and I bet you do, so you're attention seeking. Hope you enjoyed your 5 mins in the spotlights. |
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You're obviously in the "pattern" of abuse. your comfort zone is men treating you worse than nothing....
if it was just nothing, you would just be ignored.... no, he blatantly goes out of his way to hurt you. This will all only get worse... he will also use the kid to get leverage on you. you want out of this????? change your behavior pattern. until then, you're toast. |
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OP, your life is a trainwreck.
Get professional help. |
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