Hi,

I got a call yesterday around 9pm from a girl I've been talking to from another site and everything was going really well over the phone so I asked if she wanted to get a drink she said yes, but the problem was she lived kinda far, but I said I'd drive out there to see her anyway so I did and when I got there I was surprised to see that she was there with a bunch of her bar friends so I knew right there and then things weren't going to go well. I sat by her we had a few drinks and things were ok at first, but then she started ignoring me just to talk with her friends and I was getting really pissed off and I let her know about it and she told me she didn't know all her friends were going to be there and maybe another time we can go somewhere alone. I didn't think that was acceptable to me so I just got up and left. I had a few beers in me so I left her a message on her phone just stating I've never been treated that badly before In my life. So I need some advice do you think I should call her or just move on as I'm not attached to her or anything.

she knew her friends would be there that way if she didnt like you she could still have fun with them
and well
if she started to ignor you then yeah i dont think she was to into you

depends maybe this is what she is trying to tell ya..she is drunk...or she just diddnt feel comfortable meeting you like that..i always meet in public place for first few meetings preferably one that u know has video..so she cannot play any games..if you won the right to see her right off the bat at her place feel privi
egled..not most wemon will take that chance now days...

Just move on..if she is more interested in her "bar friends"...then that is a CLEAR signal.

Move on bro and better luck on the next one.

I was on a first date and she asked me my credit score.......

Up to that question she had maneuvered the convesation around my home, my car....

I don't bro, while I am sure I am crazy it seems to me that women have more of an agenda than a desire for love.

Its almost as they have forgoten how to deal or treat a man but lke I said, I am crazzy....

If she wants one more try, have her meet you. End of story.

not all of us so please dont put me on that list of yours ron

I'd move on...
There are plenty of others out there that would like to have a date...

I would agree that if she was more interested in chatting with her pals then with you, then she is not interested. I wouldn't call her.

As for women having a different agenda then finding love, that maybe true in some cases, however not all! And keep in mind, that can go both ways!!!!

i dont like when girls do this, being ona date with a girl an her friends means its not really a date and she wants to see how you really are, but its not right and you two should just be alone, dont even fall for girls like this man. its not worth it

thank you for the advice guys & Gals, but I'm still unclear if I should call her as I do like her and would like to give her another chance.. Do you think that is a bad idea? I keep thinking about how she treated me so that is probably what the future holds for me if were together. I think her looks is the other thing that has me still interested. Man did I feel like a real idiot!!!

well if she looks good then its okay to at like a b*tch??
let her call you
if she likes you she will

first of all
she cant be too stupid to know she hurt your feelings
2nd of all if she knew how you felt dat night
she be callin you and apologizing to you about dat night
so really bro you chasing a shadow who doesnt really show affection to you yet, but just confused, even i have girls who apologize to me about these things, cause they are REAL LOVING sweet human being girls who have feelings and do know how to treat a man and know dat not everything is for her own self
i really dont like how she treated you

Oh, Rick, that sucks. At least you went out. Right? Right.

I understand her wanting to have her girls around for back-up, safety, etc. However, if she was digging on you, you would have known it. She would not have ignored you.

It is all up to you if you call her to see her again. Don't be discouraged if she says no. Think of it as a numbers game. Play the law of averages. Let us know what you decide to do.

M

Move on

I don't care if she is Miss America, anyone that treats you like that does not deserve your time and energy. I personally wouldn't have even left a message. Treating someone like that is immaturity at it's highest level. I personally won't date a drinker but that is just me. A drink here and there, fine. Hitting the bar and closing it down, hell to the no.

Short and sweet answer? Move On.

My opinion, her actions were completely in appropriate. Bringing in friends for a first meeting without warning "stacks her deck" and she was there to supposedly see you. Move on. There are more respectable women out there.

I agree, inappropriate. Been there and got the tee shirt. Try it again, and if she ignores you, well, put the shoe on her foot, ignore her and hustle on one of her friends

i say do what you feel...

Crap in her mailbox. Is that clear enough? Better luck next time.