the more you grow up the more you get more responsibility
so how do you handle it with getting upset with your mind and soul?

It's a good thing, so what could be the problem...?

I don't know, honestly.

In some ways I very responsible, and in other ways very neglectful, in important ways.

My professional life, and finances are in tip-top condition. On track to retire early with the amounts I am able to save and invest. So far I have been pretty good with only a few mistakes learning to work the market.

But also I work too much and when I am not working I drink too much. When I finally get off the road for a few days its bottoms up! When I am on the road I do not drink a drop, so don't worry there. Like most truckers, I am a professional.

I still have a lot to learn and a lot to work on, for sure. My job saves me from myself and keeps me in check. I can't retire right now because in a lot of ways I am not very disciplined, but my job keeps me in line.

I have a big responsibility since I was 16 and until now. most of the time I feel so tired.

When somebody tries to hand me a bunch of responsibility, I tell them to keep it. My mind and soul are very much at peace.

I get down on myself more then...
anyone else can be disappointed with me ...


I get so angry at myself for feeling stupid...
for making the same mistake twice...
mainly why did I not ...learn from the first one ...


I wish I new the answer ... I should but don't errrr...

If you are at peace then you may be more responsible than you realize. Maybe not according to everyone, but you have found away to make things work for you. And that's really all that matters.

Hi I. With u

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would I wanna "grow up"?

I'm with you there Rock'. Grow smart, don't grow 'up'.

I should be a factory manager, with high paid responsibilities, but prefer to be able to go home and forget that work and all that B S even exists.
I am a responsible gun owner, and car driver though.

P. S. very irresponsible on my motorbike though!

I resort to morning affirmations and a mindset of getting the responsibilities 'over with' from day to day, so I can get to my relax and breathe time.

I've had tons of responsibility weighing me down for years. Now, I'm trying to lighten the load and I am going back to my childhood ways. It's great.

Hi

I suppose you handle it by seeing it positive. If you have responsibility it also means you have choices and with that a say in how things go.
A life without responsibilities may seem great but it also means another / others are controlling your life.
It isn't that black & white of course, but I do think if you got your chit together that responsibilities don't weigh on you or not so much. If they do you may have some work cut out for you.

I simplify my life and get less unnecessary responsibilities.

Then I have more chance to focus on the important ones.

Just be thankful if you have the chance to fulfill the important ones.

I would like to learn how to discuss these issues in my next relationship. Ideally she can help me be a, man of my word.

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