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After my husband died, my main companion has been my cat. Yes, I have human friends, but they aren't there for me 24/7 the way my cat is. She's getting old. I knew the day would come. About 3 months ago she started developing dementia. (Yes, cats can get it.) It is now time. This Thursday I have a home vet visit scheduled. She'll be put down in the comfort of her own home, cuddled on my lap. I've been crying for 2 days. It's so difficult. So painful. Even though I know it's for the best for her, it's not the best for me. I will miss her SO much.
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Oh hun, it is so hard. Our pets have none of the flaws that people do, they are just furry balls of love. We lost 4 last year alone, all from old age (4 cats, 1 dog) and all you can do is ..celebrate what they added to your life. Be grateful you were there for her ;-) |
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Such sad news Mary . Take comfort that it will be peaceful and she will only be aware of your love give her a cuddle from me .. sending you love and strength xox
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Sorry to hear that, Mary.
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May she arrive safely at the other end of the rainbow bridge
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Prays and healing wishes
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I still get my cat in my dreams and she has been gone over 20 years. She appears in my dreams often.
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i know excatly what you going threw. its hard to loose a pet - they are 4 legged humans. i lose my 11 year old boxer on 9/23 (he passed away in his sleep on the couch) - what the sad part was i was about not even 5 feet away from him (i was alseep on the other end of the couch and he was on the other end).
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Sorry to hear about your furbabies passing.
Remember there are so many pets that need you and your love... when you are ready. |
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very sorry to hear ... another reasons I dont have permanent pets ... as much as I would love to have a dog big but still a puppy ... but I have my neighbors... comes to see me a lot ... same with a foster cat ... believe he has another home but he runs free an not really mine though I still worried about them and will feed him all he likes ... I have lost so many animals through out my whole life ... and really don't want to be hurt again ... so much love I know exactly how u feel ... and some where just adopted but think of them all the time ... what could I have done ... but they get old and you don't want to see them suffer ... ok it really S*cks ...
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