I really dont know the reason why.

should we ask for permission?

I just need to know why you keep on doing it

Don't listen to him . They do it for many reasons. Boredom with what they have. Because they don't think they will get caught. If you are blaming yourself don't. It's nothing wrong with you but with themselves.

Men/Women both cheat they do it for many reasons~~

Main one is due to they don't have the Respect to tell their partner there is a problem and they need to go their own way...

It is not anyone's fault but the one that cheats~~

Because they are eejits ... though there is female cheaters as well.

Answer: For the same reason that women cheat.

What David sayz..

I've never cheated, but have been cheated on. So, why do women cheat?

Might they found something more interesting

They secretly want to be James Bond, just not the espionage part.

0 0 I don't know.

Without getting too complicated.

Monogamy is but an idea, one that runs contrary to the reality of our nature as biological organismic human beings.

Although monogamy is a relatively recent idea, it's old enough that it encapsulates our entire lives as individuals and so we perceive it to be completely normal and even fundamental to human relationships, when in fact, it isn't.

None of us would be alive today if it wasn't for the incessant and apparently excessive need to procreate like crazy, as much as possible, with as many different people as possible, we have the success of our ancestors at doing this to thank for our own existence.

That being said, it's not necessarily a bad idea given the current social paradigm, just one that requires a conscious effort to abide by through suppression of our impulses, some will fail as our raw nature inevitably manifests.

Something to think about anyway...

People break laws and or rules to see if they can get away with it? In order to prefect perfect harmony within each other you have to keep each other happy. You have to truly understand one another. If both of you agree on the issue a peace is withstood. And if polygamy is both your goal you find happiness. But if monogamy is truly your ideal. You have to truly understand your own values before the others. And find this reason other than scars to truly forgive the other. When you find this perfect person that makes you happy your ideals are usually theirs or you're both willing to work towards reason... The world is full of players and while you get burned they burn themselves further. To find out if a man is going to cheat or not? Why not simply just ask him what his values on life is? If he has a heart usually a brain too... He values love. If this love is betrayed you have to both work at it or you might've just let s good man walk away from being a king cobra into a slithering worm...

Really? Quite the tit for tat statement, which is incorrect:

They feel underappreciated, neglected, or ignored.
They feel more like a housekeeper, nanny, or financial provider than a wife or girlfriend. So they seek an external situation that validates them for who they are, rather than the services they perform.

They crave intimacy. Women tend to feel valued and connected to a significant other more through non-sexual, emotional interplay (talking, having fun together, being thoughtful, building a home and social life together, etc.) than sexual activity. When they’re not feeling that type of connection from their primary partner, they may seek it elsewhere.

They are overwhelmed by the needs of others.
Recent research about women who cheat indicates that many women, despite stating that they deeply love their spouse, their home, their work, and their lives, cheat anyway. These women often describe feeling so under-supported and overwhelmed by having to be all things to all people at all times that they seek extramarital sex as a form of life-fulfillment.

They are lonely. Women can experience loneliness in a relationship for any number of reasons. Maybe their spouse works long hours or travels for business on a regular basis, or maybe their spouse is emotionally unavailable. Whatever the cause, they feel lonely, and they seek connection through infidelity to fill the void.
They expect too much from a primary relationship. Some women have unreasonable expectations about what their primary partner and relationship should provide. They expect their significant other to meet their every need 24/7, 365 days a year, and when that doesn’t happen, they seek attention elsewhere.

They are responding to or re-enacting early-life trauma and abuse. Sometimes women who experienced profound early-life (or adult) trauma, especially sexual trauma, will re-enact that trauma as a way of trying to master or control it.

They’re not having enough satisfying sex at home.
There is a societal misconception that only men enjoy sex. But plenty of women also enjoy sex, and if they’re not getting it at home, or it’s not enjoyable to them, for whatever reason, they may well seek it elsewhere.

The reasons men use to cheat are entirely different, like immaturity, selfishness,
insecurity, etc. etc. you can read them here. http://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201704/13-reasons-why-men-cheat


I can add another reason for cheating, not by women, by men: out of spite, to hurt his woman.

some of us perceive, that women can "get used by all of the other ones and still complain about men cheating with just a few."

why is that?

This!

it is not really cheating if there is no penetration, right?

It is a successful idea for men who aren't controlled by their genitals.

it is not cheating if you have permission.

men are welcome to my text number so you can simply text me when you want her back.