Why women value men who has a list of filthy money? why they do not like frugal man or financially struggling?

Taking you literally... sounds like you're describing men who keep a "list" in their pocket of serial numbers of their dirty paper money that needs cleaning.

no keyboard screwed me up, generating wrong words.

Women value men they will not have to support. They value men who can take care of themselves. That way they can relax and spend their energy on getting to know each other.

Historically, men are expected to be the bread winners, and continue to hold that position if we look at the incomes of men v women.

So it may be a red flag for some women, if he struggles financially.

On the flip side, men often value women based on weight. It sure comes up a lot. A body can be attractive at so many different weights but its a concern for most men.

Both money and weight can fluctuate during a persons lifetime, so its not a stable way to go about finding love I reckon.

Perseverating on it all can drive you batty. Find stuff to giggle about every day.

Women like rich men in the same way you like beautiful women. Men cannot have it both ways. You stop picking women based on hotness, and we will stop picking men based on salary. Deal?

For the same reason that some men mischaracterize women because the men can't get dates.

Well guess I'll go find me an ugly woman and take her out to McDonalds.

Confucius say "Marry an ugly woman for when she leaves you, you will be happy".

OT: I don't care if my money is filthy or spotless. I just want some.

An old Yorkshire saying
Keep a woman well serviced and badly shod an they will never leave you!

Why do you consider women to be 'The Enemy'?
Did some mean girl, steal the french fries out of
your happy meal?

Well, someone who's really frugal is not typically someone who's balanced or happy with life. They're more in fear, even if only subconscious, than living a joyful life.
I've lived with a man like that, it is horrible. Very much from ratio, not feeling, and to cheap to even spend 10 cents on something, including birthday presents or Christmas and so on. Only if it's free or as cheap as possible.
Not a way to live. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Doesn't mean you have to almost throw your money away, not at all. Just a healthy balance.

Financially struggling. Nope. I'm not looking to make my life more difficult.
It's also very unpleasant as they can never do anything, go anywhere. Now I don't have much myself, but I still buy a cup of coffee with a piece of cake or something.
I've been with someone who was struggling, then I had to pay for everything when we went out. And I wanted to, I don't fancy burying myself in the house when I'm young and have money to do fun things.
He was reluctant about it, it emasculated him. Not handy.


I am BTW not looking for a filthy rich man. Best get that limiting belief that that is what women are looking for out of your head.
Unless women in the States are 100% different from women here, but I doubt that.

YES.

You can't just say all women are like that yeah there is some who just want money and don't care how it comes but not every women is like that just like not all guys are the same.

Species survival favours the endowed .. financially or otherwise .. fact of life