I think it’s difficult to find these 3things

Imagine if it were too easy ;-)

Good Lord & Lady! The difficulties we would have!! Bloody exhausting, haha

Apparently it’s difficult but certainly it exist .. all that really matters is the heart for one another .

If someone can love once to one, he or she can love again to someone else also

Love has many Facets in this life, such as the many Facets on the most priceless Diamond.
The ageless saying "Love conquers all" is endlessly true in it's meaning.
For if there's no love in the world, there is no hope, and where there's no hope, only emptiness, and loneliness, will be found. A life cold as stone.

It might help to not think of it as difficult. Think of it as an interesting journey to find it. That helps to shift in a more positive mindset which helps to attract people.

Love conquers all, yes. But most people interpret that to mean "romantic love" and that's not what it means.
Two people can love each other and yet that may not be enough to actually make it work.
Then you have to stay in love, and the expression "If you love someone, set them free."
This is almost impossible for most who cannot let go and get stuck in heartache and so on.

With "Love conquers all" it is actually about unconditional love.
Unfortunately romantic love is conditional. It shouldn't be, but it is.

At this time dear is in mouth of the lion. To arrive her/him are very difficult.

It actually is, for some. That is, they think they are "in True Love" as soon as they have a really fun time with someone...they declare mutual Forever After, run off together chattering about True Love Conquering All...

then they stumble across ANOTHER wonderful person, declare the first one to have been a faint illusion that only anticipated this next one, and proceed to run off with the NEW whatever.

How so?
Do you think it's difficult to find those 3 things discretely?
Or all together at the same time?

Do you have an idea on how to find them, and you think the means is difficult?

Or are you looking in hindsight that you haven't found them and therefore assuming it must be difficult?
Or have you found them, you're looking in hindsight, and have determined that it was difficult to find them?

Do you believe you will "know them when you find them?" so try to "keep an open mind" believing you can recognize and value them appropriately when you encounter them, chasing feelings hoping they lead to stronger and deeper ones?

Do you do a lot of "self discovery" or "self improvement" thereby creating boundaries for yourself, and thereby believe "love, understanding, and happiness" will ultimately be static, objectified, instances or concepts that are easily identifiable, and once you find them that's it, they are unchanging, that it's just a matter of finding that "one," and that you will/should feel a certain way, and if you don't then it's just a matter of "tweaking" (working on) yourself, them, the relationship, to get to where you think you should be?

From whose perspective are you looking from/defining "love, understanding, and happiness?"
Is it your love for them (or whatever), your understanding, and your happiness?
Is it finding someone that loves you, understands you, and makes you happy?
Is it finding someone that defines love like you do, understands/defines (communicates?) love and happiness the same as you. Or, if not, "understands," accepts, and values how yours is different?


Where exactly does the difficulty lie for you?

Is it a "difficulty" within yourself where you're keeping yourself from finding it because it requires more effort than you're willing and/or capable of exerting?

Is it an external "difficulty" where something/someone else is keeping you from finding it?

Or is it a combination? If it is a combination, can you separate that which you can control, control it, and then shift to focusing on the external obstacles?