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Topic: What's more important, love or...
SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 02/23/19 01:43 PM


Ill hold your hair back so it doesnt go in the toilet smokin
Heres your shot(of tequila) ...salt is on my neck and lemon slice is in my mouthtongue2
surprised

Alrightyyyyyyyy thennnnnnnn!smokin

laugh laugh

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 02/23/19 01:46 PM

Well since I’m older, I’ve done all that stuff, career, kids etc.

Now I’ve decided that it’s time to enjoy myself as much as I can considering I’m caring for an adult grandchild.

So my priority is to have fun and it’s better shared. So I did put effort into finding someone and I am surprised But he found me and it’s awesome.

I'm truly happy for you! This is the guy from the "Soulmate" card, right?
Absolutely great that it's working out so well :)
And yes, not having that desire/need to have kids etc. is quite a relief in a way, isn't it. Not to knock it, it's all part of the big circle of life, haha.
flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 02/23/19 01:48 PM

I agree with JustBeHonest except I'm not actively looking for a partner.

I, too, am enjoying the single life and now focusing on me after being with my ex for 38 yrs. I worked hard and retired 6 yrs ago.

If, in the future, someone comes along then I'd be open to that but I'm not in any rush.



That's good! I can sometimes find it difficult to not feel pressured because of age. But you can't force it. When the time is ripe :)

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sat 02/23/19 01:49 PM

Finding love is not at the top of my priorities. If it comes along that's fine.
I'm not really looking, I have had three marriage proposals in person.
Unfortunately, they weren't the right men for Me.

I have had a good career. Now enjoying Life doing whatever things I enjoy.



Sounds good to me!
flowerforyou

Rock's photo
Sat 02/23/19 04:17 PM
Currently, focusing on where I want to live next,
is the priority.


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Sat 02/23/19 08:08 PM
I just want to relax and be myself.

FeelYoung's photo
Sat 02/23/19 09:27 PM
If I could re-create the giddy teenager feeling I felt when I met my 2nd husband, I'd call it love and go for it. 24/7 never was enough. -- but it seems all that comes my way is 30 year old Nigerians. So, I guess I'll settle for watching Big Ten basketball and letting my mind wander into the past at least 10 minutes each day.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sat 02/23/19 09:48 PM
LOL, I just enjoy living and if love happens, so be it, but I don't really DO ANYTHING in a quest for it?

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 02/24/19 04:09 AM
Most important for me is my own health and wellbeing, and that of those, who are close to me. And I can do well without a partner :wink:

luv2roknroll's photo
Sun 02/24/19 12:38 PM


Or are you in a stage in life where you are more career focused, building that up, possibly getting a house


Ok so when I first read that, I thought it said possibly getting a horse!surprised oops laugh

Lets just say, im more inclined to buy a pony, then get married at this point in my life. winking

Doesnt every girl want a pony? :heart: love

I didn't, and still don't.
I once sat on a pony, I'd rarely been so uncomfortable. WAY too close to the ground, haha. I got off, and got my bum on a proper horse. Much better!
Heres an amazing fact!spock

Ponies grow up, and they become proper horses!surprised winking rofl

luv2roknroll's photo
Sun 02/24/19 12:41 PM


Here ya go luv2..........




OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG PONY PONY PONY PONY PONY PONY PONY!!!!!love surprised laugh

Thanks! Your the best Poetry.smitten

D_~elso~'s photo
Wed 02/27/19 06:29 AM
LGBT- Liquor, Guns, Bacon, ****!

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 02/27/19 06:47 AM

LGBT- Liquor, Guns, Bacon, ****!

The healthy life-style ohwell

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 02/27/19 06:50 AM

Currently, focusing on where I want to live next,
is the priority.



Like your honest answer :)
Where to live next is also one of my quests in life, haha. I haven't figured it out yet, at the mo it's also on the backburner for other reasons (my kids).
Hope you find out where you want to go!
flowerforyou

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Fri 03/01/19 01:10 AM
What's more important than love?

Love every breath you take cos you're alive.
Love every meal you have cos you're eating.
Love your shelter cos you have one.
Love yourself cos it really is all about you.
Love everyone around you cos we're actually all the same.
Love a good coffee in the morning cos that **** is just awesome.
(Even love the person who replies that they prefer tea...)

Dunno what's more important than love....

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