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larkygal Joined Wed 06/08/11 Posts: 10	Thu 01/03/19 10:36 AM
Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women.

larkygal Joined Wed 06/08/11 Posts: 10	Thu 01/03/19 10:45 AM
I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself. Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich. Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men.

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Thu 01/03/19 11:04 AM Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Thu 01/03/19 11:05 AM
I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself. Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich. Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men. Me too... I may not have much...but I don't want someone who has less than I do... Not interested in these guys who "walked away from " everything and are living in a camper... Who the h*l "walks away" from everything you worked hard for all your life? Or guys who claim they "lost everything" in a the divorce..and are living in a camper... I* have been divorced..if you "lost everything" at your age (no child support, kids are grown)..either you had a bad lawyer..or you got caught cheating or something.. I suspect many of these guys who claim to have "walked away from" everything or "lost it all" in a divorce actiually had some other reason for that.. Gambling...maybe.. Sadly....many of the guys in my age range seem to be looking for a "nurse or a purse"..as I overheard a woman say last week at an evcevt I went to...

Cooter91 Joined Thu 01/03/19 Posts: 2	Fri 01/04/19 12:41 AM
I'm real an looking for some fun got to be close to my area either sex or both massage me an just so you know I'm new at this

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Fri 01/04/19 03:16 AM
Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women. And that’s a load of BS! I don’t need any man’s resources, I have everything I need. every thing accept handy man skills

chris2460 Joined Thu 11/17/16 Posts: 834	Fri 01/04/19 04:14 AM
I resent that remark. I do not look for a man with resources that i can steal. I do look for ones who can resource himself as well I do myself. Most of the men I have talked to on these sites wants money from me since they seem to think since I am an old single American woman then I have to be rich. Scamming is gender nutrial so please do not lump all women into one group. I don't do that to men. Absolutely - I agree scamming is gender neutral!

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Fri 01/04/19 05:39 AM
Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women. And that’s a load of BS! I don’t need any man’s resources, I have everything I need. every thing accept handy man skills Shhhh why would tell them that? Besides, I got you for that.

Eloisa Joined Fri 01/04/19 Posts: 1	Fri 01/04/19 05:41 AM
Looking for a real people

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Fri 01/04/19 06:50 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 01/04/19 06:51 AM
Rooster that’s probably good advice. As far as women looking for a mans resources, that’s true with all women. Not true! I'm self sufficient, own my own home and car and retired 6 yrs ago. I certainly don't need a man to 'keep' me I am self sufficient, financially blessed and I desire a serious Partner to have the same.

Bob K Joined Sat 12/29/18 Posts: 15	Fri 01/04/19 07:06 AM
Of the past ten likes or nudges or whatever, the average age of the girl was 27. Which is cool if I was, say, even 40. But at 62 I’m thinking alterior motive :) Having said that, I recently met a nice lady here, we have just started talking. She is obviously real and I think wading through all the scammers to find her was worth it. I don’t know if we’ll have a friendship or relationship, but at least there is a real chance that could happen :)

I_love_bluegrass Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 1665	Fri 01/04/19 08:40 AM
Of the past ten likes or nudges or whatever, the average age of the girl was 27. Which is cool if I was, say, even 40. But at 62 I’m thinking alterior motive :) Having said that, I recently met a nice lady here, we have just started talking. She is obviously real and I think wading through all the scammers to find her was worth it. I don’t know if we’ll have a friendship or relationship, but at least there is a real chance that could happen :) Here's the thing that irritates me.. Just what you said...we ALL get inundated with fakes/ scammemers, so..when you are actually messaged by a real person, your natural instinct is to assume it is another fake/ scammer... So, you ask them some things to verify they are real and live where they claim...and THEY get an attitude....don't like to be questioned, tell you you have "issues"... Damn, skippy....I'm sorry I don't have the crystal ball to tell that YOU, as oppossed to the previous 128 people that messaged me..that you are actually for real/ legit.. Instead of getting an attitude, try understanding, and working with me here...

bonne Joined Thu 12/27/18 Posts: 2	Fri 01/04/19 09:33 AM
I beg to differ. There are women who are self sufficient and DON'T NEED MENS RESOURCES. Its unfortunate for the ones that are like that, they are ruining it for us good women

bonne Joined Thu 12/27/18 Posts: 2	Fri 01/04/19 09:34 AM
for sure, makes us honest ones look bad with the gold diggers out there

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33339	Fri 01/04/19 10:57 AM
. That had you tongue-tied for a bit ......................

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Sat 01/05/19 09:30 AM
both ... talk then meet local ... if possible ...

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Sat 01/05/19 11:03 AM
meant to say only looking to get laid

marie Joined Fri 01/04/19 Posts: 2	Sat 01/05/19 02:58 PM
I'm new here but I hope I will have some luck ,so far so good

olivepit Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 393	Sat 01/05/19 03:08 PM
meant to say only looking to get laid Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again.

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40230	Sat 01/05/19 03:12 PM
meant to say only looking to get laid Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again. You going to come and show me how it's done?

olivepit Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 393	Sat 01/05/19 03:31 PM
meant to say only looking to get laid Dat be true but you left out over and over. Oh and over again. You going to come and show me how it's done? I'm scared I'd never want to leave.