I've only ever dated older, my first GF when i was 16 was 28, my next was 36 when i was 22, and my ex wife was 45 when i was 33. Now that i am 39, i want to go younger, yet i am worried about that because I've spend my whole life with older women, i generally have more in common with a 50+ woman than a 25yr old, but i want kids, and I don't think I'll find a 45+ year old woman who wants children, and as women age it gets dangerous anyway, and love is one of those things that you forget about yourself and become selfless.. So i totally understand the age matters thing, but as a male that has only ever been with older women. i would say some men are just wired for mature women. Oh, and yes physical love with an older woman is a different experience.. my friends with younger or the same age.. it's just not the same conversation.

for me age doesn't matter

Does it really matter

Age never matter is just a number. Maturity is not all about age

Actually i am more attracted to mature women than younger ladies, if they have nice build and beautiful personality. they way a mature women can understand a relationship, younger women can't. Mature women is more caring, loving and can made the life of a younger guy awesome. To me, mature women are best partner of life in a relationship.

I like that

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Here's how I see age. It's a number to keep a record; just like the number on a scale. I go with how I feel and what I like. That's how I choose to live my life. If there is a mutual attraction, what the hell does age have to do with anything? If two people with a significant age difference are happy, let them be happy. Worry about your own life! I don't meddle in yours.

That's a toughie for sure. I used to want a family, but certainly not now or ever precisely because of my age. Would you be open to being a step-father? You say you're 39. You don't necessarily have to go that much younger. Then again, sounds like 28 worked for you, which tells me you have a fairly good range here. Good luck!

Amen! Sadly and ironically enough, I have better experiences with younger men. They may lack life experience, but they tend to be more mature when it comes to treating a woman as a queen. Men closer to my age, are sheer a-holes. It's a shame, but at least I'm okay with dating younger men.