Topic: What is a REAL man for you?
Easttowest72's photo
Mon 10/15/18 09:27 AM
A little chunky is fine. A pot belly is a sign of heart disease. Guys could do a few push up or weights. :wink:

Larsi666 😽's photo
Mon 10/15/18 09:34 AM


Yeah right. Big wallet, big house and sixpack? I give up, even if I am a wee bit exaggerating. But I don't think, any of us guys here is a freeloader. Still, we are not in a cloudcookooland, where we are getting picked up by celebreties and unicorns. Beauty comes from the inside, ffs :wink:

Yes, beauty comes from the inside for sure, but you should feel good when looking at your partner and not think and feel "Eeewwww!"

And men always make out to believe women are so demanding, while I feel it's more the other way round, but that part is always left out...



Yeah I know. A bit of an outer shell has to be there as well. But for me, this would be more personal hygiene.

Anyways, I know I don't look like Tom Cruise ... Tom Hardy ... Ronaldo ... But heyho, I am not an ugly pig either laugh

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 10/15/18 09:35 AM

Hahahahahahahaha!

Close your eyes and reach down to where you pee.
If you feel a penis, you ARE a REAL man.

If you don't, well, you figure it out...

Lets turn it around...
What makes a female a real woman?

Any woman that writes in her profile that she is looking for a REAL man is not worth investing time to get to know.
I think the whole concept of REAL man or REAL woman is stupid and displays ignorance of the REAL world we live in...DELUSIONAL.

Really?? Would you still feel the same way if you were peeing next to a hermaphrodite in a public loo?

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Mon 10/15/18 09:37 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 10/15/18 09:38 AM



Amazing how shallow people are.

Money, heard that one in there.

Work, yes, wouldn't it be nice if we all could

Not fat, well, I guess my gif explains that.


Whoopie doo.. you can take care or your yard, or change your oil, or God forbid change a tire.

Reckon most of y'alls depiction of your perfect mind. So, when we did everything you all have mentioned, and something happens and those days are over for us, we should be stuck in the gas camber, burned, and used for fertilizer, because seem to me, if we cant do these things, then that's all we're good for.

Shallow... I think it's best I stay alone because I don't want no shallow person in my life. Don't need nothing from none of ya.



Bitter? Damn straight.. hope you shallow people find your Hurcules..



You *clearly* misunderstood..

I *said* people need to quit saying "takes care of themselves" when what they mean is "I don't like fat/ overweight people"..

And I went on to state that some people take great care of themselves, but are tubby nonetheless..

I also merely pointed out that, unlike what shallow people think..not *all* tubby/ overweight people are lazy/ sedentary....

Sorry you misread everything.




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Mon 10/15/18 09:41 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Mon 10/15/18 09:43 AM
someone that is honest and respectful ... kind... and is compatible

with me... and has his own mature life also ...

and yet someone...

who can let loose of their ego sometimes laugh

for fun timessmile2 we could have...

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Mon 10/15/18 09:47 AM
A real man scratches his nuts, farts all the time, leaves the toilet seat up, and will occasionally behave like a child.*

Sorry to burst your collective bubble, but "real people" (what an effing retarded concept...) have flaws. You lot can continue to be single and search for that mythical creature you seek.


*Not necessarily true in all cases but written to make a point.

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Mon 10/15/18 09:51 AM
laugh very well said and true

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Mon 10/15/18 10:01 AM

laugh very well said and true



And yet they keep on searching... Totally clueless. It's like they're searching for the Holy Grail when all they should be looking for is a cup.

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Mon 10/15/18 10:06 AM
Funny how men are commenting ~ mansplaining what they THINK women want.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 10/15/18 10:19 AM

Funny how men are commenting ~ mansplaining what they THINK women want.


Oh, GalaxyStarz...ALL the time.
Guys message me and tell me what I want...that, regardless of what i wrote..I want this or that (because that is them)...

I had one guy argue with me on another site last week..he told me twice because of *my* ego, I was missing out on gthe right man for me...and I need to "open my heart to possibilties.."

I asked him 3 dang times "what about what I wrote in my profile did you like and feel we share in common..because yours is blank and therefore I have no clue.."

He refused.

I finaly pointed out that:
A. The "right man" for *me* would have read my profile, and said something like "Hey..I see we have (this or that) in common...wanna chat?"

B. Insisting *you* are the right man for me based on YOUR opinion is *all* ego talking.
Check yourself, bro...noway

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Mon 10/15/18 10:28 AM
Funny how people change the topic to suit their viewpoint. The original post was asking about what you look for in a "real man." Maybe it is me, but I do not recall the post asking about what constitutes "Mr. Wonderful."


There is a large bit of real estate between a "real man" (bwahahahaha) and what would get you hot and bothered.

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Mon 10/15/18 10:28 AM
Edited by GalaxyStarz on Mon 10/15/18 10:29 AM



@ bluegrass

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Mon 10/15/18 10:33 AM

Funny how people change the topic to suit their viewpoint. The original post was asking about what you look for in a "real man." Maybe it is me, but I do not recall the post asking about what constitutes "Mr. Wonderful."


There is a large bit of real estate between a "real man" (bwahahahaha) and what would get you hot and bothered.



Why are you defining a real man to women and assuming you're accurate? Need attention? Who said anything about hot and bothered?

Just having a penis doesn't make a man either a real man, or a desirable man to marry.

If a man's idea of himself is based on his penis, then he is neither a "real man" or "Mr wonderful"



prince's photo
Mon 10/15/18 11:22 AM
i am real man

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 10/15/18 11:43 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 10/15/18 11:43 AM


Why are you defining a real man to women and assuming you're accurate? Need attention? Who said anything about hot and bothered?

Just having a penis doesn't make a man either a real man, or a desirable man to marry.

If a man's idea of himself is based on his penis, then he is neither a "real man" or "Mr wonderful"




Your last line...YES.

drinker smitten :thumbsup: waving

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 10/15/18 11:43 AM


Hahahahahahahaha!

Close your eyes and reach down to where you pee.
If you feel a penis, you ARE a REAL man.

If you don't, well, you figure it out...

Lets turn it around...
What makes a female a real woman?

Any woman that writes in her profile that she is looking for a REAL man is not worth investing time to get to know.
I think the whole concept of REAL man or REAL woman is stupid and displays ignorance of the REAL world we live in...DELUSIONAL.

Really?? Would you still feel the same way if you were peeing next to a hermaphrodite in a public loo?

I don't pay attention to the people in public restrooms with me.
And, yes, there are people that are equipped with both sexes but they are the exceptions not the standards. Oddities.
I once met a man (well, at the time, a boy) in high school (boys shower after gym class) that had two penises. Is he twice the man? Well, if you consider what it means to be a man, then Yes, technically, he was twice the man. What we found out by talking with him is that neither one could get fully erected and only one actually was good for peeing.
An evolutionary oddity.

Manhood and womanhood is not based on how well you display integrity, honesty or respect. That is called personality.
Since everyone has a unique personality and a specific gender, being a real man or real woman is a matter of physical attributes.
Its the personality that sets the difference.

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Mon 10/15/18 11:44 AM





Why are you defining a real man to women and assuming you're accurate?






Truthfully, "real man" is a bull$h!t term, thus it can be defined however one chooses.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 10/15/18 11:52 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 10/15/18 11:54 AM

I don't pay attention to the people in public restrooms with me.
And, yes, there are people that are equipped with both sexes but they are the exceptions not the standards. Oddities.
I once met a man (well, at the time, a boy) in high school (boys shower after gym class) that had two penises. Is he twice the man? Well, if you consider what it means to be a man, then Yes, technically, he was twice the man. What we found out by talking with him is that neither one could get fully erected and only one actually was good for peeing.
An evolutionary oddity.

Manhood and womanhood is not based on how well you display integrity, honesty or respect. That is called personality.
Since everyone has a unique personality and a specific gender, being a real man or real woman is a matter of physical attributes.
Its the personality that sets the difference.


I have had guys tell me dating me would be like dating a dude, because I don't "do" my hair, my nails (never have...never been a problem with any long term I had)..rarely wear makeup...don't do dresses, heels...etc.

Now, if that ^ is what some guy thinks a "real" woman is...fine...he needs to just step on down the line and keep looking.

There are guys with a more "female" vibe/ aura....I have known quite a few, and no...they were NOT gay..let me assure you.

There are women who have more of a male vibe/aura....are they all lesbians?
No..absolutely not.
(if you think so, you are too narrow mineded for me to even bother with..
I could ~explain~ it to you...but I can't *understand* it for you...)

It boils down to everyone likes, wants, and prefers what they like, want, and prefer..

If that is not ~you~...then let them keep looking..
Do not change yourself to suit someone else....you won't be able to keep up the pretense forever....so, why start out with that?




SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 10/15/18 12:06 PM

Funny how men are commenting ~ mansplaining what they THINK women want.

isn't it sad?
I almost posted something on that before, but decided to delete it.
But it seems most men project their own bad experience onto women in general. On top of that, they themselves have huge list of demands of what we should be and look like.
- must watch sports on tv with them
- must actively sport several times a week
- have to be slender
- have to be sexy
- must drink beer and/or wine (wtf for I don't know? I don't like either)
- must mostly wear dresses/skirts & heels
- must have a job/money
- must be okay with him waking you up at night (90% ask that?!?!)
- and so on and so forth...

In other words, we cannot be, do, dress, eat & drink what we want... slaphead

All of these things a woman gets asked a gazillion times, not just once or twice.

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Mon 10/15/18 12:30 PM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Mon 10/15/18 12:35 PM


Funny how men are commenting ~ mansplaining what they THINK women want.

isn't it sad?
I almost posted something on that before, but decided to delete it.
But it seems most men project their own bad experience onto women in general. On top of that, they themselves have huge list of demands of what we should be and look like.
- must watch sports on tv with them
- must actively sport several times a week
- have to be slender
- have to be sexy
- must drink beer and/or wine (wtf for I don't know? I don't like either)
- must mostly wear dresses/skirts & heels
- must have a job/money
- must be okay with him waking you up at night (90% ask that?!?!)
- and so on and so forth...

In other words, we cannot be, do, dress, eat & drink what we want... slaphead

All of these things a woman gets asked a gazillion times, not just once or twice.


They can want what they want...and..that's OK...
WE want what *we* want..and we're "picky bit**s" or it's "good luck with finding that...go be with your cats.."