ok that means we're in A2 now

Chief PUA... into older women?

haha you cougar
what have you got goin for ya more than your looks?
whats really rare is 1. a good energy 2. great personality and 3. a great outlook
eh you got 2 out of 3; its a good start

ok ok standard PUA routines aside, im very open minded.

As am I.

To those who wish to follow along: that was A3 followed by the beginning of a BHRR of A3...but i'm not going to follow through with the BHRR in this case. Now, onto C1.

lol



Did you find that it's best to be more open minded from experience or were you always like this? Personally I went through a lot of situations that made me learn, as the old saying goes, that the more we know, the more we realize how little we know... are you in the same boat?

that sh!t's contagious

honestly I wouldnt date anybody who had to read this to know it

Chief,

I can say I have always been openminded because I was raised that way. I try to know what I don't know and learn something new every day... both on purpose and inadvertantly. How about yourself?

It seems as though we are rapidly approaching the foreplay stage, according to what I know of all the "letters".

Should we take this private?
E-Mail me....

Funny story if anyone wants to read. The girl I had a thing for likes this other guy. Last time this happened, I was a wreck for like 3 weeks. This time, I'm actually happy about it. Chief, in another thread you told some guy he "made a commitment before a commitment" and that's what I did with this girl. That fact that she's the one that "broke" that commitment I felt, I'm a lot happier. It's strange, but oh well, I'm weird, lol.

Chief, I have a question for you. After you open, how do you keep the conversation going? Do you stack openers or do you just go off into your own little world and talk about anything?

You just gave yourself two examples of what normally happens after the opener. 1. stack openers and transition smoothly, or 2. follow the rule of "the best transition is no transition."

what do I usually do? I do something different in every set so it's hard to remember my usual pattern if I have one...let's see...looking back to a few nights ago, i was at this party. After opening sets, I started telling stories that were relevant to whatever came up in the situation. The usual question that came up was "how was your break" (it was a frat party at a bar so we were all students from the same school) so I just started telling DHV stories about what I did during winter break, passionately expressing the fun vibe plus how glad i am to be back in this fun city of new orleans (emotions are very contagious so express the positive ones with passion). I had a huge advantage in this field because I knew a lot of people there. In the main 3-set I was in, I would be CONSTANTLY getting social proof from a bunch of girls givin me hugs and kisses and all these chill guys, and I would introduce them. I worked the whole room there.

So, I guess what I'm trying to say is to get used to telling fun stories. If you don't already have that down, don't worry about sticking in the DHV spikes yet - just get used to talking about your life (hopefully you have some fun and interesting things about your life haha). Also, take advtantage of backwards and forwards set merging because that gives you the preselection attraction switch.

If you go to realpuas.com, I posted an article there called "How to Talk to Women" where I elaborate on the tactic of "multiple threading" and other conversational skills. Check it out if you think you need further help with keeping up conversation.

Also, one of the guys who lives on my floor showed up at the party and saw me. He was all like "Hey Chief! Give me a quick pointer from your PUA stuff." And I told him something I learned from Jlaix: guys who talk LOUDER and in greater amount are more successful in-field. When I was in that 3-set, I WOULD NOT SHUT THE F*CK UP but those girls were eating it up, listening intently to every word that came out of my mouth. And it feels damn good when three girls are leaning in toward you, all giving you attention as if you are telling them some kind of underground celebrity gossip. Hell, I was only talking about something my roommate did


if you insist, but i aint promising anything more than stimulating conversation. im not that easy

Thanks buddy. Reading the books is easy, but it doesn't always give you a full grasp of everything.

"I read and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand." -Confucius

"man with hands down pants feel cocky all day"- Confucius

Allow me to play the devil's advocate. If this was your tactic, how did you know whether or not these girls were interesting? You gained and kept their attention, but what motivated you to do so?

In reality, when I'm on, I really enjoy being the center of attention, so I can understand that as a motivation in and of itself. If you're just entertaining, though, and not engaging, how does this technique tie back into making a more intimate contact with somebody?

Perhaps I will answer my own question: Does it make it easier to approach one of the women later if you're both going to be at the same location for an extended period of time?

A2 is Female to Male interest. He had their attention and they were interested. A3 is Male to Female interest. If he wants to go further, he has to show her that she's qualified herself enough to get more of his time. It doesn't have to be anything big. A simple "I like you because blah blah blah". Don't say you like her because of her looks though. Compliment her on her personality.

Just wanted to say Hi doll, kinda missed bantering with you....Hope all is well...That's for Chief...I almost spelled it wrong for old times sake...