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Topic: single mamas
Dodo_David's photo
Sat 09/01/18 07:37 PM

I dated men and the two relationships i got into had no issues with me being a mom. In fact there was lots of love and understanding and no issues!


Perhaps that is because you aren't still legally married but separated. :tongue:

sandysingh's photo
Sat 09/01/18 08:42 PM
those guys r not worth anything thry just want list

ShadeCentury's photo
Sat 09/01/18 09:21 PM
Edited by ShadeCentury on Sat 09/01/18 09:22 PM
Profound my darling! @msharmony

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Sun 09/02/18 12:00 AM
I agree with my previous 2 replies!

zarbhatti1's photo
Sun 09/02/18 02:10 AM
you are absolutely right, i agree with you

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Sun 09/02/18 04:48 AM
Thank you

zarbhatti1
Sun 09/02/18 05:10 AM
you are absolutely right, i agree with you

Palghat's photo
Sun 09/02/18 05:40 AM

for me i tried it twice , both major fails
momma knows best and will not let me help even though i would have gladly and did take them as my own

but momma no let me help teach , and then wants to blame me for things that happen cause of there lack of teaching

and it all ways went back to this is my child not yours
<shrug>

best wishes on your hunt


Very insightful. TY
These days its children who believe in marriage.
They want to see both parents together, at least till they reach their teen years.

Rondon 's photo
Fri 09/07/18 07:19 AM
Hi

Rondon 's photo
Fri 09/07/18 07:24 AM
:pear:

FeelYoung's photo
Fri 09/07/18 11:10 AM
i raised my children alone and looked for a partner when they were 17 and 18. some men struggle to pay attention to their OWN kids, so don't expect the majority of men to be interested in someone else's, especially if they think they are going to have to help out with $$.
sad, but that's reality. possibly you will find that one gem, but it can take weeks, months or years. good luck.










































Stu's photo
Fri 09/07/18 11:36 AM
I raised mine, hers(adopted him), ours..

Then I help a gf raise twins for 7 years.

It's possible.

mzrosie's photo
Fri 09/07/18 11:43 AM

I raised mine, hers(adopted him), ours..

Then I help a gf raise twins for 7 years.

It's possible.


you're a good man, Charlie Brown happy flowerforyou

luxa's photo
Sun 09/09/18 07:17 AM
yes

Agaki10's photo
Sun 09/09/18 09:59 AM

Why do men ignore a singl lady just because she has children,,is she not supposed to love and to be loved


Men don't ignore single women.
Men ignore women who are still married to someone but separated.
By the way, being separated isn't the same as being single.

true it makes you feel a side chic

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Sun 09/09/18 10:33 AM
HOW ABOUT THIS.....
Why do women ignore single guys who have children?

Billly7106's photo
Mon 09/10/18 10:51 PM
Left everything sponsor me for marriage then i will show u what love and sincerity is...

manjul_10_'s photo
Wed 09/12/18 02:07 AM
I think its an over generalization.

people have their pre judgment of what an experience will be or pre conceived ideas of attractiveness, and its hard to stray from them to take a more person by person approach.

some people may ignore a cop, for instance, because they have the pre conceived idea of the danger it may bring in their life or the risk of losing that person sooner, even if that individual cop may not be on a dangerous route or may be a peaceful person, there are too many options to find out about THAT individual or their circumstance.

the same thing with single parents, some people have the pre conceived notion of what will or wont be expected of them and what they can or cannot expect from a single parent, and there are too many options for them to stop and find out what that Individuals actual circumstance or expectations are.

we weed out people for the sake of simplicity, I think, and we probably all miss out on some great matches because of this. but priorities will remain priorities and people will continue to make those quick and subjective judgments, against our ideal of what we want in a relationship.


I pretty much 'ignore' single men because of my preconceptions about their preconceptions ...lol. My 'preference' is someone who is a parent. But I remain aware that it is possible I could meet and fall for someone who is not, because they are the TYPE of individual I can fall for.


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Tue 09/18/18 11:47 PM
Maybe you are over sensitive.In my area,many men love women who are still virgin,when they make friend with virgin women,they may put all their heart into their relationship.As you said,you are a single woman who has a child that means you have divorced,I really not mean hurt you but it is the trueth.When men face a woman who has divorced,they may not interest in you or be unconcerned about you,you could feel that they harm you,ehhh,maybe just in this situation.

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