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Topic: do you believe in long distance relationship? Yes, I do. You need to trust each other. But you cannot really know each other on the internet. So try to meet face to face as soon as you can.. see if you like their smell.. I myself love a fresh-out-of-the-shower look and smell. So please take a shower before you meet me. As Marvin Gaye's song says... 'Cause baby there ain't no mountain high enough Ain't no valley low enough Ain't no river wide enough To keep me from getting to you babe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() In my heart, I feel the same way, rosie. I've gone back and forth with it in my mind, though I've always remained open to it if by chance someone special came along. It would be a shame to say no to what might be the love of your life just because he lived a little too far away. Suppose it was the Universe sending you the special one that you've asked for, and you keep saying no because he doesn't live where you think he should... that would be pretty silly, huh? Especially if it's the same one the Universe sends you over a period of time... maybe it's time to follow your heart rather than your mind. ![]() I do agree that you should meet in person as soon as possible. If there are outside factors preventing that, like some kind of plague or pandemic, then doing other things as often as possible, on a daily basis even, is really important until you are able to meet in person. There's lots of fun thing you can do Skyping... talking, laughing, going on dates, singing and dancing, etc. Trust is by far the most important. Without that, it's doomed to fail. It takes a lot of trust and patience to wade through the ups and downs of being long distance until that distance can eventually evaporate. Am I willing to trudge those mountains, valleys, and rivers for the love of my life, or what could possibly be the love of my life... Hell Yeah! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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lol I'm glad to hear it.
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Topic: do you believe in long distance relationship? Ordinarily, I'd be screamin', Hell No! But, this week, and this week only, Mingle2 shoppers, I believe in LDR's. :dancing gnome emoji: I cannot remember what movie it was... people in some establishment, someone feeling like you, and another person pointing at him, saying "I'll have whatever he's having!" I do not believe in LDR. Even when you live a few hour's drive apart it's difficult. You have to really get to know one another, meaning see each other regularly, and keep doing that at least until past the pink glasses disappear so you know what you're truly dealing with. Then spend a few weeks together, see if it still is great. Do that for a total of about a year, year and a half at least. Only then, maybe, you got something. Can be a costly business to see each other. Other than that it can be fun, entertaining, make you feel good and so on. Nothing wrong with it, except that it keeps you from finding someone with whom you can build a real thing. That generally how I see it. I'm just in a joyful mood. Quite joyful, actually. I agree with you. LDR's are crap. But, I'm so damned happy lately, I just want to believe in everything, with the gleeful abandonment of foolish innocence. |
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Am I willing to trudge those mountains, valleys, and rivers for the love of my life, or what could possibly be the love of my life... Hell Yeah! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You go girl ![]() ![]() |
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Am I willing to trudge those mountains, valleys, and rivers for the love of my life, or what could possibly be the love of my life... Hell Yeah! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You go girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Topic: do you believe in long distance relationship? Ordinarily, I'd be screamin', Hell No! But, this week, and this week only, Mingle2 shoppers, I believe in LDR's. :dancing gnome emoji: I cannot remember what movie it was... people in some establishment, someone feeling like you, and another person pointing at him, saying "I'll have whatever he's having!" I do not believe in LDR. Even when you live a few hour's drive apart it's difficult. You have to really get to know one another, meaning see each other regularly, and keep doing that at least until past the pink glasses disappear so you know what you're truly dealing with. Then spend a few weeks together, see if it still is great. Do that for a total of about a year, year and a half at least. Only then, maybe, you got something. Can be a costly business to see each other. Other than that it can be fun, entertaining, make you feel good and so on. Nothing wrong with it, except that it keeps you from finding someone with whom you can build a real thing. That generally how I see it. I'm just in a joyful mood. Quite joyful, actually. I agree with you. LDR's are crap. But, I'm so damned happy lately, I just want to believe in everything, with the gleeful abandonment of foolish innocence. Hang on to your joy and happiness! Miracles can happen when in that vibration :) ![]() |
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Hang on to your joy and happiness! Miracles
can happen when in that vibration :) ![]() Well... The one woman on M2, that I've consistently "liked" over the past few years, lives in Too~Far~Away Land. And, she doesn't like LDR's either. Thank you, for your kindness. ![]() |
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Hang on to your joy and happiness! Miracles
can happen when in that vibration :) ![]() Well... The one woman on M2, that I've consistently "liked" over the past few years, lives in Too~Far~Away Land. And, she doesn't like LDR's either. Thank you, for your kindness. ![]() Never give up on your dreams, Rock! ![]() |
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Edited by
Rits
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Thu 03/12/20 03:32 PM
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I believe that ldr can work if both parties are willing to put the extra effort to keep in touch. After a while, a meet up would be good.
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I will only believe if it's will work for me, but it wont.
He gave up first. |
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Sometimes one just need to cautious and watch out for the red flags
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it's all about the connection,if we are connecting there is no distance left
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yess
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How about now?
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I will only believe if it's will work for me, but it wont. He gave up first. what happened? |
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I agree with you
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It can work out if both parties are ready to be committed
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Relationship good when partner close and with you
I feel that I am still single |
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Love that idea of living together at some. Can we talk ?
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precisely!
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