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Topic: why do men go for booobs butt and stomach instead of persona
geektothetenth Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 880	Thu 12/06/07 10:42 PM
I wouldn't call it biological imparitive though. Throughout time and between cultures people have different ideas of beauty. You can see how the image of beauty has changed by looking at art and the models used for art. A lot of women who are considered hot now would have been too thin back in older times. I cited other examples somewhere else in this post. Chinese people consider light skin and tiny feet to be attractive traits. These are both disadvantageous in that low melanin increases sun burn and tiny feet make you easier to push over lol. It's part biology, but society and class systems play a large role as well. Yes, you are correct. However, the "ideal," as displayed by art, is an embracement of the construct of the artist's imagination by society rather than a true reflection of biological imperative. Yes, but it does play a role in what people consider attractive. Similar to the popularity of certain fashions, so and so buys Louis Vuitton bags so all of the sudden females HAVE to have it. But to the topic at hand, people find what they find attractive. It doesn't really matter if someone thinks it's right or wrong, that's the world we live in and people just have to deal with it. It's funny, you never hear people with personality dysfunctions come out and say "oh why do people judge me on my personality, it's just wrong". Why is it okay to judge people on intellect, sense of humor, personality and not looks? I judge people based on the total package presented.

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Thu 12/06/07 10:51 PM
I wouldn't call it biological imparitive though. Throughout time and between cultures people have different ideas of beauty. You can see how the image of beauty has changed by looking at art and the models used for art. A lot of women who are considered hot now would have been too thin back in older times. I cited other examples somewhere else in this post. Chinese people consider light skin and tiny feet to be attractive traits. These are both disadvantageous in that low melanin increases sun burn and tiny feet make you easier to push over lol. It's part biology, but society and class systems play a large role as well. Yes, you are correct. However, the "ideal," as displayed by art, is an embracement of the construct of the artist's imagination by society rather than a true reflection of biological imperative. Yes, but it does play a role in what people consider attractive. Similar to the popularity of certain fashions, so and so buys Louis Vuitton bags so all of the sudden females HAVE to have it. But to the topic at hand, people find what they find attractive. It doesn't really matter if someone thinks it's right or wrong, that's the world we live in and people just have to deal with it. It's funny, you never hear people with personality dysfunctions come out and say "oh why do people judge me on my personality, it's just wrong". Why is it okay to judge people on intellect, sense of humor, personality and not looks? I judge people based on the total package presented. [Mission Control: we have found intelligent life] It's lovely that you actually can converse intellectually.

ChiefPUA Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 1175	Fri 12/07/07 12:48 AM
I'd ask yokoke but pua got her banned. Thanks. not my fault she was breaking the rules. there's just no reason to blatantly disrespect anybody like she did...especially when you refuse to reason out your differences. i mean, seriously, come on. she used the word "buttmuncher." i can't even get remotely offended because it's so unbelievably ridiculous. i was crackin up... Anyways, Gustava and Geektothetenth, you guys are BOTH right. The dichotomy of nature vs. nurture has been dissolved by the general consensus of the scientific community. Nature and nurture exist and work together to drive the evolution of our species. We have genetic predispositions when it comes to predicting our mate choice, but of course the influences we grew up with act as an additional factor to what we are attracted to.

maraskia74 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1017	Fri 12/07/07 12:55 AM
sorry the first thing i notice on a guy is his body, be honest when was the last time a really hot guy just walked and started talkinh to you, saying personality implies you know the person. the first time you meet someone you judge them on looks, or what they say too you. and be honest when you see someone acrost the room what does there personality say too you. i will admit, i like too look, i know what i look like and what i like too looking at. call me shallow but at least am not lying

geektothetenth Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 880	Fri 12/07/07 10:29 PM
Yes, you are correct. However, the "ideal," as displayed by art, is an embracement of the construct of the artist's imagination by society rather than a true reflection of biological imperative. Yes, but it does play a role in what people consider attractive. Similar to the popularity of certain fashions, so and so buys Louis Vuitton bags so all of the sudden females HAVE to have it. But to the topic at hand, people find what they find attractive. It doesn't really matter if someone thinks it's right or wrong, that's the world we live in and people just have to deal with it. It's funny, you never hear people with personality dysfunctions come out and say "oh why do people judge me on my personality, it's just wrong". Why is it okay to judge people on intellect, sense of humor, personality and not looks? I judge people based on the total package presented. [Mission Control: we have found intelligent life] It's lovely that you actually can converse intellectually. Why thank you, I also quite good at waxing moronic

Gustava Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 251	Sat 12/08/07 12:53 AM
Yes, you are correct. However, the "ideal," as displayed by art, is an embracement of the construct of the artist's imagination by society rather than a true reflection of biological imperative. Yes, but it does play a role in what people consider attractive. Similar to the popularity of certain fashions, so and so buys Louis Vuitton bags so all of the sudden females HAVE to have it. But to the topic at hand, people find what they find attractive. It doesn't really matter if someone thinks it's right or wrong, that's the world we live in and people just have to deal with it. It's funny, you never hear people with personality dysfunctions come out and say "oh why do people judge me on my personality, it's just wrong". Why is it okay to judge people on intellect, sense of humor, personality and not looks? I judge people based on the total package presented. [Mission Control: we have found intelligent life] It's lovely that you actually can converse intellectually. Why thank you, I also quite good at waxing moronic Moron is my first language.

JaymeStephens84a0lc Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 2704	Sat 12/08/07 01:01 AM
For the same reason us women go for a nice face and a decently healthy body, humans are shallow... all of us...

98stanger Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 52	Sat 12/08/07 01:06 AM
yea i have had my share of women using me. im to nice. maybe im gonna be a prick. seams like thats what women like now days

KalamazooGuy87 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 2728	Sat 12/08/07 01:10 AM
Personality is hard to see from 100 feet away.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 12/08/07 01:14 AM
There's something about a nice bubble butt, that just makes me go """"""""""""""""WILD""""""""""""",,,,lol

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 12/08/07 01:20 AM
i go for a gals cookin, never mi9nd her body. lol

JaymeStephens84a0lc Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 2704	Sat 12/08/07 01:24 AM
yea i have had my share of women using me. im to nice. maybe im gonna be a prick. seams like thats what women like now days Haha, don't change being a nice guy. I've never met one of those...lol, how the hell are ya?