they go 4 boobs, butts, and other parts because there is nothing else to hunt for. well, maybe brains and a nurse with a purse, and well money.

this is true

when i used to go out clubbin, i would always have my bum touched and my boobs, and my cousins male friend used to do it to. thats men for ya

Hummm cause that is what they like we all have something we like in person mine is the eyes and smile first.

Besides who wants to be with someone if your not what they want in the first place

i have all those thngs yet still alone.....

These things are only initial attractions. They are not necessary though. It's a way to grab our attention which will then lead to us getting to know each other better. It's natural process.

finally,a female that i agree with on this subject!

Imagine this: "Hey girl, I noticed your personality from across the room and I thought..."

Now more realistically: (thinking damn...look at that @$$, I wanna get wit'cha...) "Hi, my name's Wiitard. How are you?"

Personality in a girl is the 1st thing I look for in a girl.If she is always smiling and happy being around me then that's a bonus.The 2nd thing I look for in a girl is how she treats me....if your gonna treat me with respect and love then you'll always keep that smile upon my face.... Now if you treat me like dirt and act like you don't really care about me or the realationship well then it's your loss....You've just gave up a golden opourtunity.So yea there ya go.

I have had men come at me with lines and some other stuff and when they go for butts and boobs they are materialistic. I say that because men like that are only after what you can do for them and what they can get done*sex*. I had a boyfriend that I had to break off that habit. They, well he looked at me for what I had and not for what we both could get you feel me so yea I mean what else is there to do. Men like that are not really men it is the music videos and the male ego they visualize you naked and in the bed with them and mentally undress you and if they can't see you like that than they don't want anything to do with you or about you.

okay and that might be true but my thing is this: Why do men gawk at women or be like DAYUMMM when they see them in the street or on t.v. And then on top of that somebody with a nice body wouldn't to me in my opinion humble, I say that because I used to be thick and have ass and a nice body and the whole nine, I was rude and obnoxious because I knew I had what every man I came in contact with wanted so I mean rarely you will find a nice person with a nice package and if you find her and she is nice I will tell you if I saw her on the yellow bus and not the one with rims and tints and E40 driving it ok!

well, i have boobs, a butt and a stomach, so im good!

'A nurse with a purse?'

Wonder what's she's got in that purse?

i go for personality...the boobs are just a bonus

LET ME SEE WE LOOK AT YOUR BOOBS AND YOU LOOK AT OUR PANTS!!!!!! AM I NOT RIGHT?????

Yes I like that stuff,but it is her heart and soul I want to touch most.So It's great to have all that,but if your ugly on the inside so what,I don't want anything from you.Now A great hearted woman is always better than a HOT one.It might be you like men that are shallow.A true hearted woman is always better than a hot one.I think any woman is sexy if she feels sexy.I know there are men that see more than just that stuff,I want a woman that does.But HOT ones with great hearts,I'M IN LOVE...TRUELY Kenny

yeah you're right, just wondering why they are so baggy in the crotch.

My answer would be its a product of society and what most considered beautiful by the populace. I personally look for personality first then appearance(only look at how someone keeps themself groomed). Women basically do the same thing just different qaulifiers(not all women though) the cold women usually only care about muscle and height though.

Your question depends on what type person you are talking about and how educated he is.

If you are talking about an uneducated fool who is just looking for a piece, obviously they are going to want the highest quality looking "peice" they can find. These guys don't care about anything other than looks and just go for anything "Shiny".


If you are talking about an educated man, you are dealing with an entirely new situation all together. An educated man wants a woman who can take care of herself. Eating hoho's and whoppers all day isn't exactly a way of taking care of yourself. "Boobs Butt and Stomach" isn't what we go after. They want someone who is healthy and cares about their appearance. Once health and appearance is in check, then they look closer at personality. If health and appearance is not in check, thats the woman's fault for not getting him. Theres no such thing as a perfect personality and ugly bodily features as taking care of ones body IS a personality trait(I think most forget this).

I've met woman who have seemingly great personalities that I could not be attracted to because they did not take care of their bodies properly. Not taking care of your body is laziness no matter how you look at it. I don't want to be with a lazy woman, so why should anyone else?

"boobs butt and stomach" are pointless to me. However, a woman who takes care of herself will at least get one of the three. Thats good enough for most guys. ;)

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