Topic: Using search or mutual match
scarfacedave's photo
Sat 04/28/18 05:03 AM
Hey all I'm in s,yorkshire, not sure how all this works but if you use search to find someone, then msg them can that person read my msg or does that person have to have liked me via mutual match in order for that person to read my msg.. also it's annoying seing multiple accounts for the same person whats all that about. Oh, one last winter, why don't ppl add a bit more to their profiles even the little bad habits as long as it says something.. wow I actually feel bit better getting that off my chest pmsl

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Sat 04/28/18 07:22 PM
I'm newer than you. Seems like you need a pic for Mutual Match. Haven't tried Search. If they're interested they can send a message. I've had 2 send me a message already and both were young enough to be my grand-daughter! What's up with that? 20 somethings don't want to hang with a 60 something.

soufiehere's photo
Sat 04/28/18 07:55 PM

Hey all I'm in s,yorkshire, not sure how all this works but if you use search to find someone, then msg them can that person read my msg or does that person have to have liked me via mutual match in order for that person to read my msg.. also it's annoying seing multiple accounts for the same person whats all that about. Oh, one last winter, why don't ppl add a bit more to their profiles even the little bad habits as long as it says something.. wow I actually feel bit better getting that off my chest pmsl

Yes, they can all read your messages EXCEPT those who have
filters in place that prevent it.

Multiple accounts are not acceptable, please report both.

I think people think they will come back later and fill in their
profile but never do.

soufiehere's photo
Sat 04/28/18 07:56 PM

I'm newer than you. Seems like you need a pic for Mutual Match. Haven't tried Search. If they're interested they can send a message. I've had 2 send me a message already and both were young enough to be my grand-daughter! What's up with that? 20 somethings don't want to hang with a 60 something.
Red flags dearie :-)