not sure if other woman want the same from Sheffield surrounding towns, staying in n watch a movie, things u have in a relationship but no commitment

Hey all I'm in s,yorkshire, not sure how all this works but if you use search to find someone, then msg them can that person read my msg or does that person have to have liked me via mutual match in order for that person to read my msg.. also it's annoying seing multiple accounts for the same person whats all that about. Oh, one last winter, why don't ppl add a bit more to their profiles even the little bad habits as long as it says something.. wow I actually feel bit better getting that off my chest pmsl