it is good for your ex girlfriend na iadd ka ng gf nya sa.facebook para makipag kaibigan sau knowing na she cheated you at harap harapan bastusin ka at sabihin sa iyo na im your ex gf .ayaw ko patulan una d pa kami nagkita ng ex ko o nag usap ng mabuti sa break up namin as we both now long distance .im in australi at sya.naman nasa oman.d naman sa pagyayabang maganda work ko at d naman ako pangit compare sa gf nya . ang d ko matanggap ung limang taon namin pagsasama ginami lang nya ako.those time naghiwalay.sila ng ex nya saka ako dumating sa buhay nya at now may nahanap syang bago tibo din sa oman at gustong kaibiganin ako.in our relationship sya ang lalaki sa amin dalawa. ang masakit pa nagbitaw sya ng salita.sa.akin na mahal nya present gf nya at handang silang mgsama forever after all sa tulong na binigay ko s kanya financially those time na walang wala kami compare.now na may work.na sya.she blocked me fb which hindi ko naman sya ginugulo tahimik lang ako tapos ung ex.nya ang may lakas na.loob iadd ako para.kaibigan ako.tnx

I understand every thing and it’s clear for me I don’t know a thing !!

This is the story:

She has an ex gf (they were both girls). After their break up, they really didn't have a chance to talk because they were far from each other, she's in Australia.. her ex is in Oman. She feels that her ex cheated her and just used her after their 5 year relationship. She said she helped her ex gf financially during those times that they have nothing, now that her ex has a work already, her ex gf blocked her in fb. She said she did nothing.. she didn't really say anything.

Her ex now has a gf. She said her ex told in front of her face that she loves her new gf and she wants her present gf to be her forever. She said her ex gf threw hurtful words to her.

Now this is her question: Is it right that her ex gf's present girlfriend is adding her in fb (for the purpose of wanting a friendship) knowing that her ex blocked her?

In that situation, no.

Welcome Sis ..

It's not right Sis.. just ignore the girl's request.. you're not close anyway .

Take care of yourself. God bless!

I would probably assume that anything the ex’s current gf has to say would be biased at best. If she has something important to discuss, she could have made that point with a message added to her friend request.

Well, I added Brad Pitt.
No complaints so far.

Soufie, you’re a sweetheart.

Wow.. I wish my problems were that minuet

ty AngelHappiness for the translation


i myself wouldn't ,

main reason why
is cause she will post pics of her and your ex g.f.

and that can beat up your heart that is all ready hurt

best wishes to you and sorry for your pain : (

Never add an ex to anything. Emergency contact, checking account, loan, facebook, FWB.......never!

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Now this is her question: Is it right that her ex gf's present girlfriend is adding her in fb (for the purpose of wanting a friendship) knowing that her ex blocked her?"

FB is a double sword, better off keeping the distance. With blocking, there is no reason to look for an update.

Thats im thinking her gf will do next. I ignored her gf msg now. My ex not think how i felt. She broke me last xmas and its very painful spending my xmas abroad alone and surprised of their pic together.I went home Phils spending my annual vacation but i cannot get over of our break up.Shes happy now that she send me hurtful words .Only respect i need not this way adding me on fb and send some good moment they have together in oman. I wish to get the money she owed to me but she said i have good job and no need to pay me back.

To all mingle team thanks for your advice.I appreciate and the translatiobn made by one folk here :) im new here just a week ago. Have a nice day.God bless all of you.

omg please read the Forum Rules.

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This is not fb!