Topic: Dating someone with children
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Thu 05/17/18 10:31 AM
I am just a normal woman ahahahaha. I have a good education, but my culture is very strong than that. Especially about caring for children.
Children are a reflection of the family success here. So I cant keep quiet about the kids... Thats why :pray: I really like children

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Thu 05/17/18 10:47 AM
Setting specific standards such as

*no kids and I would date you

is pretty harsh. What If you were that kid? Or What if you had kids? A lot of single parents mistreat their kids because of these common issues, I have seen that happen. We are greedy by nature


Thats right, I think the same thing. We must take care of the children well. Dont let them think badly that they become a burden for their parents to have partner... :pray::pray:

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Thu 05/17/18 10:49 AM
I have a son whose just 1.5 years Would you date me


Oh daddy, this is not the right way to find a mother for your child.
You should find a woman not for your sexual satisfaction but for your son's future..

#nooffense

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Fri 05/18/18 04:04 PM
It's not a question of my minding that she has children per se, it's more that I'm terrible at first impressions; Perhaps unintentionally misleading her into believing that I'm too big of a freak to let near her children.

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Fri 05/18/18 04:25 PM
Edited by ShybutKind on Fri 05/18/18 04:27 PM
The problem I’ve run into is becoming too attached to the children. If I need to ditch Dad, I don’t get to keep the kids. I’ve asked. They never let me.

I tread carefully here, because I know how hurt the children can be when they become attached too. That’s more hearbreaking than the breakup.

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Sun 05/20/18 05:11 PM
it really depends?

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Mon 05/21/18 08:09 AM
If you like someone child no is any problem

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Mon 05/21/18 01:02 PM
i would love it as i cant have kids of my own so dating someone who has kids would be a dream

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Mon 05/21/18 03:43 PM

Do men / women really mind if someone they want to date has children?



For some people it does make a different, for reason unknown to me as; WHY.

It depends on each individual person and life experiences. With a positive response this can change a persons perception.

I date a woman last year whom had two children and it was one of the most positive life experiences I ever had. It was the first time, I ever allowed myself to date a woman with children.

I thank her for that experience in life.

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Mon 05/21/18 06:24 PM
It doesn't matter

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Mon 05/21/18 06:38 PM
i would love it as i cant have kids of my own so dating someone who has kids would be a dream

I pray for yaa :pray::pray::pray:
All the best :hugging:

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Wed 05/23/18 01:40 AM
No

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Wed 05/23/18 01:40 AM
No

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Wed 05/23/18 02:21 AM
It really depends on what we want in the relationship. I believe if you really want the person, you have to take everything that comes with... The whole package... But the problem that usually arises when one cannot put boundaries or cannot weigh between romantic and sibling relationships. As long as those relationships are well managed and defined, I do not forsee any problems.

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Wed 05/23/18 03:57 PM
Depends on that couple

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Wed 05/23/18 07:25 PM

Do men / women really mind if someone they want to date has children?


To date , absolutely not. To have a relationship with is a different story.

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Thu 05/24/18 12:23 AM
hi babies my name is rich

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Thu 05/24/18 12:25 AM
hi babies my name is rich I need someone who I can trust n we not chit on me

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Thu 05/24/18 12:27 AM
are you married

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Thu 05/24/18 01:52 PM
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