Topic: Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex ?
Narlycarnk's photo
Mon 12/18/17 04:21 PM
Edited by Narlycarnk on Mon 12/18/17 04:21 PM
Friends? More like ghosts.

Pepinofruit's photo
Mon 12/18/17 05:53 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Mon 12/18/17 06:00 PM


Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex ?


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Oh HELL YES....NO DOUBT.whoa

But first, one must learn to WALK ON HOT ROCKS.??:tongue:
That's easy with a bit of coaching and training :tongue:

After that, all fall in place, all test/s passed,
and the winner is??

YOU... It's like milking from 2 cows :wink:

Disclaimer!!..MILKING ..That's EXACTLY what I meant.
That can be translated as FINANCIAL HELP IN TIMES OF NEED?
rofl

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 12/18/17 09:15 PM
I go fishing with my ex's husband.

Pepinofruit's photo
Mon 12/18/17 09:57 PM
Edited by Pepinofruit on Mon 12/18/17 10:05 PM

I go fishing with my ex's husband.


^^^^^^^^laugh ^^^^^
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I just got my birthday present yesterday,
only a week earlier from my ex's boyfriend:tongue:
He got his last month on time laugh

Anyway, I tried to remarry my ex 23 years agowhoa
She said she's NOT SURE because she was suspicious
I was only after getting my money back.
rofl rofl rofl
SAD STORYfrustrated

She was right whoa

Ladywind7's photo
Mon 12/18/17 11:48 PM
If they are a good person and can maintain boundaries, then sure.
As for me, the past is the past and my future is in a different direction.

always000freeMind's photo
Wed 12/20/17 10:32 AM
Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex??? ::heart: or noway and Now you are in a New Relationship. :heart: :heart: :heart: Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex and the Ex is the one before your New Relationship??? slaphead Your thoughts please...shocked shocked shocked


yellowrose10's photo
Wed 12/20/17 10:39 AM
I am good friends with most of my exes (ex husband and ex boyfriends)

Yes you can. There might some it is better leaving them in the dust

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 12/20/17 10:49 AM
Sounds more of insecurity. I am good friends with exes. My best friend is a guy. I wouldn't penalize my partner for it. I would be a hypocrite. Yes people can be friends with exes. If the partner has an issue...it os their problem. They need to grow up

no photo
Wed 12/20/17 12:41 PM
If there’s kids involved it’s the best way IMHO.

No kids, swerve.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 12/20/17 01:54 PM

Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex ?

Yes.
All the better to look innocent..after :-)

mzrosie's photo
Wed 12/20/17 02:34 PM
I wish I could but they are dead or in hiding. drinker

To answer OP's question, if you have kids then you should or at least be respectful of each other. Your kids should come first.

If no kids involved, if you dumped him, sure tell him you can be friends. But if he dumps you and says you can still be friends, say sure when hell freezes over.

Merry Christmas!

no photo
Wed 12/20/17 03:39 PM
Of course it is. Many people stay as friends after a marriage.. many.

no photo
Wed 12/20/17 05:21 PM

Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex??? ::heart: or noway and Now you are in a New Relationship. :heart: :heart: :heart: Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex and the Ex is the one before your New Relationship??? slaphead Your thoughts please...shocked shocked shocked


CLARIFICATION: My new X-boyfriend wanted to keep in touch with hiz EX.noway noway noway I'm like NO because when they were 2gether I waz NO where around. So WHY does he think itz OK for her to be around in our lives as hiz EX. grumble Needless to say, I broke up with him because of it. Not right!!!noway noway noway

mzrosie's photo
Wed 12/20/17 05:47 PM


Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex??? ::heart: or noway and Now you are in a New Relationship. :heart: :heart: :heart: Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex and the Ex is the one before your New Relationship??? slaphead Your thoughts please...shocked shocked shocked


CLARIFICATION: My new X-boyfriend wanted to keep in touch with hiz EX.noway noway noway I'm like NO because when they were 2gether I waz NO where around. So WHY does he think itz OK for her to be around in our lives as hiz EX. grumble Needless to say, I broke up with him because of it. Not right!!!noway noway noway


I am with you there, Queenbee. I would have done the same thing.
flowerforyou

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Sat 12/23/17 09:37 PM
#FACTz:spock spock spock

msharmony's photo
Sun 12/24/17 12:57 AM
I think it depends upon why they are an ex.

IF they are an ex because you werent into it but they were, its best to cut ties, unless there are children, IMHO

IF they are an ex because you were into it but they werent, its probably not an issue

but whatever the case, imho, i think the EX has to be friends with/respectful of your new partner and any interactions should be in the presence of that partner and not alone together...

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Thu 01/04/18 09:42 AM



Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex??? ::heart: or noway and Now you are in a New Relationship. :heart: :heart: :heart: Is it OK for you to be Friends with your Ex and the Ex is the one before your New Relationship??? slaphead Your thoughts please...shocked shocked shocked


CLARIFICATION: My new X-boyfriend wanted to keep in touch with hiz EX.noway noway noway I'm like NO because when they were 2gether I waz NO where around. So WHY does he think itz OK for her to be around in our lives as hiz EX. grumble Needless to say, I broke up with him because of it. Not right!!!noway noway noway


I am with you there, Queenbee. I would have done the same thing.
flowerforyou


All I know iz I'm DONE with him & have to move onnnnnnn drinks drinks drinks

no photo
Thu 01/04/18 09:44 AM

Friends? More like ghosts.


I hear Ya!!! drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 01/04/18 09:44 AM

Friends? More like ghosts.


I hear Ya!!! drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou

Cheryl1974's photo
Thu 02/08/18 06:49 PM
exses are that for a reason and should stay that way