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Topic: Feeling bored with husband and want to separate...
stuyrob Joined Sat 06/07/14 Posts: 17	Sat 07/14/18 01:07 PM
Change is really really hard but if its right and you do it you will be happy.

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Tue 07/17/18 05:48 AM
Im Asian women.I've married for 6ys. Im 27ys and i think im young . My husband is Asian man too. He 41ys. I have a boy 5ys. Im working everyday. But I always feel bored. My husband never understand me and he not really care about what I want. No gift, no wishing for special day... he seem just like his life... i live in Ireland with him and no friends no family... very congested Open up a small Chinese take out restaurant.. or even Korean B Que.. doesn't matter. Have your husband sign the papers. Work the counter while he cooks the food. Meet a nice guy.. fool around on the side.. divorce your husband because he works to much.. then get the restaurant in the divorce. Sell it, take the money and split with the new guy. Hope this helps

justin999 Joined Mon 08/06/18 Posts: 1	Mon 08/06/18 11:20 AM
Hello

davidbeham Joined Thu 08/23/18 Posts: 1	Thu 08/23/18 08:47 AM
hello what you said make sence to me i would love to be more encourage by you

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 08/25/18 11:24 PM
Im Asian women.I've married for 6ys. Im 27ys and i think im young . My husband is Asian man too. He 41ys. I have a boy 5ys. Im working everyday. But I always feel bored. My husband never understand me and he not really care about what I want. No gift, no wishing for special day... he seem just like his life... i live in Ireland with him and no friends no family... very congested You are young and an age difference like that is challenging. You also have a child which puts even more strain on the relationship. Try to reconcile with your husband, possibly even counseling. Sounds like there's a lot going on there that needs tending to.

Ashley Joined Mon 09/03/18 Posts: 1	Mon 09/03/18 09:43 AM
Good point.

Jord33n Joined Sun 07/24/16 Posts: 196	Mon 09/03/18 03:40 PM
Don't listen to any of this confusing crap on here, that is a series issue, go and see a proper marriage counsellor, preferably one you can sit down with and talk to in person. You've got massive decisions to make with intricate interwoven parts with massive implications for the rest of your life, and any children involved.

loveable Joined Fri 08/24/18 Posts: 1	Mon 09/03/18 04:27 PM
Text me then

Pawan Joined Sat 01/12/19 Posts: 5	Thu 01/24/19 10:25 AM
Are you friends

Wallys Joined Thu 01/24/19 Posts: 1	Thu 01/24/19 12:56 PM
y too

T.Roy Joined Wed 02/13/19 Posts: 125	Sun 02/17/19 02:23 PM
It is both his AND your job to make things interesting. If he needs help, then it's your job.

FeelYoung Joined Sat 08/25/18 Posts: 860	Mon 02/18/19 08:42 PM
Open up a small Chinese take out restaurant.. or even Korean B Que.. doesn't matter. Have your husband sign the papers. Work the counter while he cooks the food. Meet a nice guy.. fool around on the side.. divorce your husband because he works to much.. then get the restaurant in the divorce. Sell it, take the money and split with the new guy. Hope this helps Green Eyes - I want to look deeply into your eyes and tell you that You are a BAD BOY ! lol

IT_Guy_4_U Joined Tue 10/09/18 Posts: 17	Fri 02/22/19 02:06 PM Edited by IT_Guy_4_U on Fri 02/22/19 02:27 PM
Pepinofruit - You KNOW that was a pick up line!

IT_Guy_4_U Joined Tue 10/09/18 Posts: 17	Fri 02/22/19 02:07 PM Edited by IT_Guy_4_U on Fri 02/22/19 02:09 PM
Green Eyes - Sounds like you know my ex wife!

IT_Guy_4_U Joined Tue 10/09/18 Posts: 17	Fri 02/22/19 02:17 PM
Asian men - arrogant, self centered, super manly man types. I spent 25 years in the Vietnamese community, their wives are more of a servant than a spouse. With all that sitting on a high horse going on, it is difficult for them to look down and see their wife is miserable. They don't get involved in cleaning, washing dishes, doing laundry, scrubbing toilets, changing diapers or all those other "women's chores". She has to be careful not to anger him or he will beat her ***. While I don't have any "friendly advice", I feel for you. Happiness comes from within, don't let external circumstances cloud what brought you together in the first place....

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1719	Mon 02/25/19 02:19 PM
What we have here...........is a failure to communicate!!!!! Try it, might do wonders!

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Mon 02/25/19 02:57 PM
I think the meaning of life is happyness and if your not happy you need to do something about it, either get him to change and make you happy or change him for someone that does xx Change is really really hard but if its right and you do it you will be happy. Problem is, you acually believe you have the authority to tell another human being how they should feel and what they should do.

princess2450 Joined Tue 09/20/16 Posts: 115	Tue 02/26/19 06:42 AM
Hi, I was reading all the messages of "advice" from so many people (I guess they mean well). How do you feel when you read all these messages? Is it really helping you? If you want to talk about how you are feeling and what is going on in your life (including work), feel free to write to me. I will listen and we can share stories. I am not here to give advice. I am here to listen. awwww .. sounds like a pickup line .. wondering if it worked ********************************************* Bulls-eye EXACTLY

LatinaBC Joined Sat 11/04/17 Posts: 6	Fri 03/22/19 09:20 AM
I feel your frustration I was there at age 24 as well older husband. i think you gave this enough contemplation and your plan should be your next and best life. Focus on you and your boy, you are going to find true love and most of all take care of your emotional and life needs. You got this Good day you can do better you are still so young Ana Vancouver BC

Louise316 Joined Tue 06/09/20 Posts: 10	Tue 06/09/20 10:18 PM
just talk to the people that u want to understand...