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That's the reality of non-believers. However, if one asks the question "is sex outside marriage a sin?", then one must assume he is concerned for his salvation and thus a believer. The answer is yes. So your response is invalid since that is your opinion and not the doctrination of the Church.

i see so you dont believe in facts, you dont believe in sun and dark, you dont believe in jumping up and comming down. you dont believe in that. you dont believe there is two sides of things. So what do you believe in?

As a Christian as well as other religions understanding this in a similar way it is a sin but I have come to understand that the sin comes from what the consequence may be and I think that was God trying to protect us. For eg. the more promiscuous a person, the more possibility of disease can be spread, unwanted babies born, broken relationships due to infidelity or multiple sex partners/jealousy/cheating etc. This was the 'sin' I believe God was trying to teach us to avoid. Are we going to hell for premarital sex? I highly doubt that due to the fact that we as humans sin daily...lying, substance abuse, swearing etc. We need to be accountable for our lives, ask for God's forgiveness and try to avoid making mistakes as much as possible but going to hell, I don't think so.

I don't believe that it is.. I believe that the bible was created a long time ago. And as a species, we've moved on massively. Sex is an expression of love and affection. Be happy, enjoy your life, share love, but hurt no one....

Yes, the Bible is a very ancient book. They began to write it in 1513 BC. And they wrote it for 1610 years, with interruptions.
To date, the Bible has been translated into more than 2,500 languages, and more than 5,000,000,000 copies have been published. There is no other book that is in demand! So this book is still relevant today.

Indeed, humanity has advanced far. But where? To your destruction.

Sex without marriage did not bring happiness to anyone. Sharing love and not offending anyone can only be in marriage. And outside of marriage - this is disappointment, mental suffering, terrible diseases, a complete lack of self-respect ...

When your partner leaves you for the sake of someone else, are you happy, are you not offended?
when a mother (father) leaves her children - are they happy, are they not offended?
Etc.

Only sex in marriage can bring love, happiness, satisfaction, security from many troubles.
 

Jeez what a load a blimmin codswallop

it's a sin but if your happy doing it, it's your choice.. but take the risk because sometimes, it can ruined yourself if u fall for a wrong person.

Yes it is. Sex is a gift through marriage but we don’t go to hell for our sins, we go for denying our savior separating us from Him and to be separate from Him is to be in sin.

Is there really hell?
And where is it located?

"Sin" was created to make people behave well.

If you believe in religion and God, them it is definitely a sin

These are really progressive words, I appreciate your thoughts but people have made sex a commodity which is never good.

Indeed, as a species we have come so far!
There is nowhere further.

Today - with one, tomorrow - with another, the day after tomorrow - with the third ...

Love and affection are not visible here. It's just lust.

Also, advanced people sell others into sexual slavery (both women and men and children).
There is nowhere to go further!

Many see sex as something which has to do primarily with them.

Its primary purpose is reproduction.
It has primarily to do with the next generation.

Marriage -done right -is the ideal and optimal situation for raising the next generation.

The ideal is not always possible -and people can do a pretty good job otherwise, but broken or nonexistent families have extremely negative effects -which are not limited to one generation.

It is a good idea in every other way, also...

Yes, where does the ideal come from among imperfect people?

The ideal was/is the tree of life (including eternal life and access to greater knowledge, power, etc. -and also God's maintenance of the creation) -and the associated laws -called the law of love because it considers the well-being and future of all.

The more humans act contrary to that law, the more the well-being and future of our selves and others is adversely affected. We not only affect the overall situation, but also our own composition and function. Add to that God allowing our selves and environment to be subject generally to "the bondage of decay".

After repeated rejection of God's government and law (not a surprise, but the chance had to be allowed first for us to choose correctly) God placed us in a situation which was without him as much as necessary for us to eventually accept him -and understand him more by his relative absence. Where once "we" thought we did not need God, we will think otherwise later.