Is there such thing as "Destiny" in relationships? Or is it just an illusion created by everyone's minds inorder to make something surreal and for relationships to sound romantic.

Yes there is, once 'The One' has you under her spell, your Destiny, your Fate is sealed.

I belive that some people are just destined to meet. I know couples for whome it would be just to big a coincidence to get together without it. Besides, what is a coincidence anyway. But I also belive that they must work on it once the opportunity is given. At the end, it always depends on our choice.

I have always heard we have our own destiny's...
or we make our own destiny's ... I found several books and one was about destiny ... and wonder was it part of destiny ...that I found these books and should I read them ...

You know; I like that word: Destiny. And what's pretty cool about it is you really can choose your own. As for relationships, if you want it to be, it will be. However, destiny isn't a fixed thing. It changes. It's only "fixed' when you look back in hind sight. It might have been your destiny to find each other, but it might not be your destiny to remain together. Two people. Two destinies. Sometimes a straight path, sometimes paths integrated along the way. The only thing you should take into consideration is that if you allow the universe to choose your destiny, don't complain about it later.
;)

IMO we are meant to meet people for a reason at specific seasons. we just have to analyze and try to learn how to move on or manage. anyway we look at it and whatever happens , life just has to move on.

all destinies end in the same place...the grave

I don't believe in destiny at all.

Blondey *making me grin*

that's called alpha wave to grave.