Topic: Finding love
Mkambonde's photo
Sun 09/24/17 10:58 AM
Why am I finding it difficult to find someone I can fall inlove with,I am beautiful in and out but If i dress up and take a walk ,no one seems to notice,sometimes it feels like I am invisible.

Mvp_Yass's photo
Sun 09/24/17 05:29 PM
same

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Mon 09/25/17 04:16 AM
I don't know how things are where you live, but hereabouts, lots of people purposely hide their interest in each other at first sight, in order to avoid embarrassment, or as a strategy to impress you. It's a bit odd, but then humans are a bit odd, in my experience.

Mkambonde's photo
Tue 09/26/17 04:33 AM
It is true,but if people are both adults and know what they want or looking for,why not just go for what you want or looking for I mean what do you have to lose.

no photo
Fri 09/29/17 07:49 AM
Now way days ppls are horrible they don't like gud hearted ppls like u..... Don't be get depressed on this matter..... Be confident about ur self and move towards ur success then everyone will follow u.....

emperorval's photo
Fri 09/29/17 07:50 AM
as a believer, always pray in the morning and believe that with God all things are possible

abh1navabhi's photo
Fri 09/29/17 10:55 AM
you'll find some one love. jus wait. everything has its own time.

no photo
Fri 09/29/17 11:34 AM
A few times I was in my formal and fancy work outfit shopped in grocery stores during my work hour , no one seemed had noticed my present. Other times , when I am dressed up just like a shopper, I have gentlemen come over and offered their help with my groceries . The same store , different result with different outfits .

Mkambonde's photo
Sun 10/01/17 09:40 AM
Yes that I believe

Mkambonde's photo
Sun 10/01/17 09:41 AM
Yes you are right

Mkambonde's photo
Sun 10/01/17 09:43 AM
Yea you are right I have experienced that in the past,that special someone come when you least expect him.

Aanil1's photo
Sun 10/01/17 01:46 PM
No dear dont think like this u r not alone
I am also alone ..
So we are same facing satutioun
I think we should have to become friends

achavasiliev's photo
Sun 10/01/17 02:07 PM
Don't take it personal. Sometimes people are so busy with their hectic life that they don hav d time to notice you, no matter how beautiful you are. well let's face it life isn all about dating and love. But hey u could always be the initiator. u go and u talk to them. make em notice u then pitchfork

no photo
Sun 10/01/17 04:15 PM
sometimes the love that finds YOU is way better....

samatvam's photo
Mon 10/02/17 09:23 AM

Why am I finding it difficult to find someone I can fall inlove with,I am beautiful in and out but If i dress up and take a walk ,no one seems to notice,sometimes it feels like I am invisible.

Forget about finding someone, concentrate o yourself. Start doing activity that you like and can grow. Love avoids those who chase it and chases those who try to avoid it :))

Rajesh4198's photo
Mon 10/02/17 09:39 AM
hi

no1phD's photo
Mon 10/02/17 10:24 AM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 10/02/17 10:27 AM
Takes a long hard dragged from his cigarette.. oh oui oui Mon Cheri..
Finding true love.ohhhh.. to find that that the heart seeks out.. Not a easy task...
So many parameters.. right height right weight right look.. right smile right personality. Right job right location right amount of sense of humor. Right amount of communication right amount of romance.. then there is that instant connection.. that getting of each other right away.. the comfortable spot..
That instant connection.... but sometimes that takes a little bit of time of course we would all like it to happen immediately..

But even if you have all of the above..
It takes within yourself the accepting of the other person for who they are.. truly finding someone you can be 100% okay with... this is something we are searching for
. Takes another drag from his cigarette..
Sometimes you think you find that person..
But then something happens to make you question the other person ..does not matter how small or big.. something comes up to make you question.. if they are the right person for you... so hard to find someone that never makes you question that they are the right person for you...oui.?.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 10/02/17 10:39 AM

Takes a long hard dragged from his cigarette.. oh oui oui Mon Cheri..
Finding true love.ohhhh.. to find that that the heart seeks out.. Not a easy task...
So many parameters.. right height right weight right look.. right smile right personality. Right job right location right amount of sense of humor. Right amount of communication right amount of romance.. then there is that instant connection.. that getting of each other right away.. the comfortable spot..
That instant connection.... but sometimes that takes a little bit of time of course we would all like it to happen immediately..

But even if you have all of the above..
It takes within yourself the accepting of the other person for who they are.. truly finding someone you can be 100% okay with... this is something we are searching for
. Takes another drag from his cigarette..
Sometimes you think you find that person..
But then something happens to make you question the other person ..does not matter how small or big.. something comes up to make you question.. if they are the right person for you... so hard to find someone that never makes you question that they are the right person for you...oui.?.

If I may pick up on that last piece, and no, not to criticize or judge, wondering how you see this... If it happens that you question them being right or not after you've already spent (quite some) time with them, is it then not often a matter of something inside you that you have blocked or something inside you that gets triggered, something inside you that get fearful and so on and so forth?
In other words: is it really an issue of the other not being right, or is the other maybe so right for you that it scares the hell out of you because they come too close for comfort?
** "You" in this is not you, but a general "you".

Mkambonde's photo
Mon 10/02/17 01:04 PM
I totally agree with what you said

Mkambonde's photo
Mon 10/02/17 01:06 PM
True