What could you do if you fall in love in 2 different person in same time , ( its felts right even tho it's complicated)

I am SO going to simplify your life.
Pick one.

not sure...introduce them?

I fall in love in different person . She is my childhood sweet heart and he is my boyfriend since I was 20 .
They both my bestfriend
I already choose but it's keep coming back with her.

so, pick your identity first..

Maybe if your two friends like each other, you may be on the way to an extended family. But, it can be a path with lots of problems.

Yes I pick one . But my problems is my dad. He don't like it. ( that's why I go abroad to clear mind but its turn out that even i far away both of them still a problem

Are you asking if it's ok to be gay?

we cant choose who we love hon so choose the one that makes you laugh without trying dont choose the one that pressures you...just choose...and dont even think about it

Choose what your heart wants and what makes you happy. Take your problems one at time. Nobody knows whether your decisions today might make or break but these experiences will help you to be stonger.

3some?

Thanks for the wonderful advice.

3 some is not in my vocabulary.
Never do it ( not intend to do/ not interested)

It's your life..what do you feel you should do ...now perhaps I shouldn't mention this but the odds are if you're like the majority you'll pick wrong..
but then whose to say that either choice is right..quite the conundrum wouldn't you say

..Probably have a better chance if one was to consult the magic 8 ball

flip a coin ..

I got it..take them to a field take out a small wooden box it's contents ..dueling pistols

Ignore me, I was just kiddin' with you. A 3some is not for me either. I can't handle one, never mind two

Come on.. when you love someone.. truly love them you give ALL of you to them... you don't split it.

its not love you feel.

Fall in Love with two at the same time.

Sounds like, likes on the internet! That's not love.

^ Saved me some typing. ^

This close to what I have seen and found, but I do know that we can love (as in care very deeply) more than one person. Most people love their family members without having to select only one of them, after all.

But what I've seen, is that LIFE is what makes multi-person love so difficult. Simple practicality.

As difficult as it is to find ONE other person who's life goals and interests and tastes are enough of a match to be able to live with each other, finding MORE than one person who can find satisfaction and a sense of place with you, seems all but impossible.

So what I think most people do, is they find someone who is close to a good match, and let the people who they really like a lot, go elsewhere.

Of course, when we are young and inexperienced, it's awfully hard to tell the difference between desire, and lust, and especially between what we want in our fantasy inner self, and what we actually see in front of us. That's why we THINK we are in love so often, and why we end up with confusion and heartbreak so often.

Since what you mainly describe, is just wanting to be around each of them, and you make zero mention of having any interest or even KNOWLEDGE of their life trajectories, I suspect that what you really have here, is the common mix of desire for sensual pleasure, mixed with the desire for regular companionship. And that's not really love, in the sense that you could make a life with both people at once.

I do think you must clarify within yourself what is love to you, only then can you make a choice. And once you’ve made that choice it means you are really in love. IMO