Good afternoon my lovely people of M2, once again you all made my last 3 forums to be mega hits, thanks a million but lets keep it going. Shouts out to all who voiced in my cyber mansion thank yall personally. Okay, im take your on a bizarre ride this time around. Lets talk about weddings. When someone gets married its usually the bride have her way with the day. As men all we have to do is be there and look good and try not to lose your lunch if you lf know what i mean. The brides family there. The grooms family also. We got our flower girls and our ring boys. Now we know her father escorts her down the aisle. Before the greatest day of our lives then its the brides maides. The groom best men usually his best male friend right? Okay but what if your best friend is a female. Can she be your best man/girl? Is it a law that best men have to be men? So mingle lets talk about this, do you agree a woman can be a best man? Can she organize your bachelor party? So do this.

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EyeAmYourHost39

It is possible..
There are over 60 genders now...
one of them is bound to be a woman.

EyeAmYourHost39,

Hello America, well one of the reasons why I did this topic is because in the near future I will be getting g married and I have a lot of male friends but I also have female friends too but I have one in particular I would love to be my best man but she's a woman. Not a butched out woman but a very feminant woman. She's my best friend, she lives in Brooklyn, New York. She even told me one day if you make it be engaged then I throw your stripper party. I'm like whhhaatatt.....you cool with that? she mentions yes. So you be there to watch young girls in platform heels and thongs grinding on me for my 10's? She again said yes. Wow, I can't loose....lol. But seriously I want to break tradition and have a woman as my best man one day!

why not? I would suspect when 2 women get married? the best man/woman would be female?

MasterX,

wow.....60, now that's a lot. I would have my best friend Kayla as my best man....lol crazy huh? I told you all before I push buttons , I always go the distance.

TorontoGuy1950,,


OMG!.....you so right....lol.

EyeAmYourHost39,

I seriously believe a woman can make a man look good on his day. I believe she coach him during the rehearsal. The only I'm skeptical about is the bachelor party. See my bachelor party going to be very wild. I'm talking imported strippers from Atlanta's Magic City....fellas in Hotlanta know what I mean....lol. But no, seriously, it was never really written a man has to be a best man.

EyeAmYourHost39,

I seriously believe a woman can make a man look good on his day. I believe she coach him during the rehearsal. The only I'm skeptical about is the bachelor party. See my bachelor party going to be very wild. I'm talking imported strippers from Atlanta's Magic City....fellas in Hotlanta know what I mean....lol. But no, seriously, it was never really written a man has to be a best man.

Bachelor party? Wot bachelor party?
Flower girls and ring boys??? Is this a Hugh Hefner style wedding?

If I ever get married again, my father won't walk me down the aisle either. He'd be there, but not in the flesh as my dear daddy past away last year.

I'm not sure I'd want all that to-do anyways. I'd rather marry outdoors on a meadow in Scotland.

As for the question, question shouldn't be 'can a woman be a man's best man' but "does his bride still wanna marry him if his best friend is a woman?" Although I guess she'd know about it before saying "Yes" to his proposal.
For me personally: no female best friend and no bachelor party either.

EyeAm, seems like you are thinking more about your bachelor party and best man/woman than your future wife.

First of all, Congrats to you on your wedding EyeAmYourHostThreeNine! There is nothing wrong with a female friend as the Best Man. In fact it's cool so long as the Bride is alright with it. It sounds to me like you're surrounded with Love. My best to you and yours.

CrystalFairy,

Hello welcome back......lol no nothing like the hugh...lol. I was throwing a scenario but some of it true. I do want.to get married one day. I do want more children only if the heavenly father see it fits. I have hundreds of males friends and twice as much female friends. My truly best friend i can honestly say she.would be a good candidate for the best man position.

Catinidaho,

Hey precious well maybe im wishful thinking but the thought did crossed my mind. Oh snap i didnt think about how my fiancee would say about it.hmmmm.....i know this just one of my hot teas topics maybe tonight i slide this topic on to her about a female best man lady....lol

Ameercommoner,

Well if i was to be. Married i could sat thank you back and give you one of my precious stogie. Unfortunately me and my girlfriend aren't at that point yet. This just scenario throwing out there. Believe me if i was enegage i would fly all my loyal m2 family in hotels meals gas and fun on me.....lol

EyeAm, best of luck to you!

I personally wouldnt have a problem with it, but the best friend would have to be someone I trusted and felt comfortable with.

If your bride -to-be is uncomfortable with it, thats reason enough to reconsider :)

Catinidaho,

Wait wait......im not getting married. This was just a test. A test to see if america was ready for a woman best man.....lol

Peggy122,

Good evening lovrly. I been getting alot of congrats but im not getting married at least no time soon. This was a test to see if America is ready for a best lady man....lol

EyeAmYourGost39,


Okay listen i really appreciate the congrats but I'm not getting married. At least not yet anyway. Trust me when me and my girl get to that point you guts will be the first to know next to friends and family. This is thought i came up with it. Just a test thats all. And from the data i gathered you guys are ready for a best women position in a wedding.

America doesn't have to be ready for a woman as a "best man." If America had to approve of who Best men were, about 95% of the ones I've seen, would have been shoved off the platform.