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mingles2 is truly a rough place. i met friends talk with them then their deactivated never to hear from them again try 8 months of texting phone talking and mingles2 then no response when i tried to contact them. many people say what they are but really are not. looking for a soulmate , looking for a partner, they keep looking but love is more of a feeling that you cannot be without that person in your life very very difficult to do that over cyber space. don't be discouraged just pull your socks up and keep going. thanks ill wear my knee high socks and my pyjamas and roll up my sleeves again... |
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Edited by
matrueyear
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Wed 07/05/17 10:12 PM
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wait light hearted...that one i would have to work on. my heart has been way to heavy lately lol That is easy to fix, take a break ! ;) ok copy that ill go get a kit kat too Or post more intriguing topics ;) |
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NO flirting needed here ok
No flirting? Well, that leave me out. this is for you david And one for you in return. |
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wait light hearted...that one i would have to work on. my heart has been way to heavy lately lol That is easy to fix, take a break ! ;) ok copy that ill go get a kit kat too Or post more intriguing topics ;) i promise i will lol |
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NO flirting needed here ok
No flirting? Well, that leave me out. this is for you david And one for you in return. thank you David |
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Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on.
Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person. I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking. What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion. Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy. When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it. |
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Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on. Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person. I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking. What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion. Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy. When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it. thank you so much ana your words truly mean so much .. i will heed your advice and look forward to possibilities . |
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Scepticalsoulmate you are beautiful, smart witty fun. The list goes on. Don't let others plant the seeds of self doubt. You are an amazing person. I'm not sure what happened in mingle (because I'm usually the most clueless person), and I'm not asking. What i will say is don't let your confidence or self worth be guided by external influence or opinion. Focus on living life. Enjoy. Indulge yourself. Be happy. When you're ready, be open to possibilities and you just might be surprised when you least expect it. thank you so much ana your words truly mean so much .. i will heed your advice and look forward to possibilities . |
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Smile though your heart is breaking ... It is always hard when you fall for someone and it doesn't turn out how you expect .. .. spend time laughing with friends .. it is the best remedy .. there are always new men popping up ever day .. I am sure someone will grab your attention .. In the meantime .. you can keep the mingle men in line expected no less from my dearest blondey you are one of the reasons i smile here...in truly appreciate you dear thank you |
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people need other people thank you all for reaching out to me and giving me that push in the right direction. i hope that someday i can do the same for you guys. encouragement can only come from others now its time to fuel more of that courage
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I agree with the suggestion, you should take a break.
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Idk idc don't have any confidence myself...still, let me try~
1) live for yourself,love yourself..the world is sheet(replace e's with I), all humans except you are morons. 2) our existence in the universe is insignificant...from dust to dust~ 3)never think/care about others~ As for changing glasses stuff....hmm....idk why don't u try half frame glasses/ rimless ones.....and give a cold look as if you're gonna burn someone just by looking.... it'll kinda give u a sacred charm prolly~ |
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Idk idc don't have any confidence myself...still, let me try~ 1) live for yourself,love yourself..the world is sheet(replace e's with I), all humans except you are morons. 2) our existence in the universe is insignificant...from dust to dust~ 3)never think/care about others~ As for changing glasses stuff....hmm....idk why don't u try half frame glasses/ rimless ones.....and give a cold look as if you're gonna burn someone just by looking.... it'll kinda give u a sacred charm prolly~ most unique advice here...sacred charm with a cold look that could burn very intriguing and quite the challenge there nick...maybe you could send me the link? thanks |
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I agree with the suggestion, you should take a break. i will do that i already started deactivating but reactivating lol maybe its a start? |
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I'm sorry can't find a link for that look...but these are some
https://goo.gl/images/RfCVCC http://img.kpopmap.com/2016/01/seulgi-cold-warm-beauty-elsa-anna.jpg And the closest pic...but he's a guy...my fav guy though https://pbs.twimg.com/media/C177nF-UoAANsXt.jpg Cold beauty just means a person who looks like nothing in this world matters to him/her...as if you are above all that is mundane~ |
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Of course I have no idea what happened to you.
And, I am the new guy in Forums. Years spent on Mingle ditching the scammer "girls" that show up. You have been all over this place and then....just a day or so ago....Gone. Then I made comment of you being gone and you answered...You are here. Seems you are on the "Fence" deciding what/where to go. When things aren't working out for me and I have tried modifications to still be at Big Brick Wall.....Time to move on. If you did leave Mingle you would be greatly missed....I know that. |
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Ah scepticalsoulmate,
What a tangled web we weave for ourselves. You can't find confidence in another. You must find it within yourself. The first step is to truly see yourself as you are, not as you wish. Once you meet yourself and start understanding yourself you can start loving yourself. After all, it is always you. Once you start to love yourself as you are you will find that what others think of you just isn't as important as it once was. Sure, you still want to fit in but you won't be forcing yourself to live up to others expectations of who you should be. You will live up to your own expectations and that can be down right easy. Because they are your expectations. People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life. |
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Oh, that's just typical , so I'll be the only afib here?
Get your meds checked, and tell them how your feeling, they may need changing |
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People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life. |
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Edited by
Tom4Uhere
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Fri 07/07/17 08:58 PM
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People tend to over analyze, over compensate and put merit on things that shouldn't really matter. Find what is important to you and work on that, no matter what anyone else tells you. Its your life. See, that's the thing. We all know it all as it pertains to us. It doesn't mean we have it all figured out, but, we seem to get by somehow? LOL - Edit to fix my spelling dweeb moment. |
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