Well, how about that?
We're not going to do that here.
What are you really *not* good at?

Basketball. Fun, great team sport and exercise . Practiced a lot. Suck at it. Zero aptitude. As far the game goes, I'm a pretty good volleyball player.

I like to "talk it out"... get to the route of a problem.... (to a fault).
I need to be better at just letting things go for a day.

So........
What do you SUCK at?

Not much. Only everything.

I especially suck at dancing. I had a teacher actually tell me in her 7 years ss an instructor i was her only unteachable pupil

Jeez where to start.

I can't do a somersault, never have.
I fall down stairs because I can't see my feet.
I am no fun at parties because I do not drink.

I talk down around people just so they can understand me.
Sometimes when I look cross-eyed, I can't switch back.

I totally suck at confrontations.
I get Keira Knightley and Natalie Portman totally confused.
Well this could go on forever..

You are fun at parties because you fall down stairs without drinking....but cmon...Keira and Natalie have completely different accents.

Bbbbut they look the same to me :-(
One time coworkers sneaked alcohol into my root beer at dinner
and my head fell onto the plate into the mashed potatoes.
Sound asleep.
Of course, when they had a good laugh over me passing out and
pulled my face from the potatoes they then loaded my purse
with silverware..as they were leading me out of the restaurant
they told the maitre'd they thought I had stolen stuff, so he
searched my purse and there it was..he must have seen the
picture because I did not go to the Big House.

I can't sing.
My own mother threw me out of the church choir...can't carry a tune in a bucket.
I also suck at golf.

Administrative things. I used to file all my paperwork once or twice a year. Gave up on that. Now my administration is a sort of chronological pile of paperwork in a cupboard

sports... I don't like sports, except for martial arts.

I suck at decorating/ interior design stuff

I suck at confrontation, words just don't come out right... I tend to be abrupt and others take it like a personal attack.

I suck at just letting it go, tend to want to get to the nature of the problem and find a solution

I appear to suck at relationships, either that or I suck at choosing the right one for me.

I suck at most sports.

And I suck at controlling my emotions when I am over tired.

There's more but that's enough for now.

As an average I suck at the implied concept of life.
The things I suck at now are different than the things I sucked at when I was younger.

I suck at conforming to others expectations of the person they think I should be.
I suck at trends and fashion. Comfort means more to me than compliance.
I suck at smart phones, texting and meaningless conversations.
I suck at gossip.

I suck at many things but this is a dating site and the whole idea is to promote what you are good at to find someone.
What I suck at is something that should be discussed in person, with that person, not with the community as a whole.

Golf
Absolutely love watching and playing the game but I'm rubbish.

If only for one round I could play like Tiger in his pomp I'd die a happy man.

Obviously I suck at winning the lottery, else I'd be living in Bermuda instead of Milwaukee.

Im terrible at sports , Maths, Chemistry,keeping deadlines, following directions on a map, and fixing , assembling or building things,

Wow

This reminded me how lame I am

As an average I suck at the implied concept of life.
The things I suck at now are different than the things I sucked at when I was younger.


I'm with Tom4U on that concept.

This was totally not to make anyone feel bad. More about acceptance.
"These are my strengths. This is what I need to work on. I probably will never win gold in the 100 meter.

Hopefully, a happy acceptance of who we are???

I shouldn't have used the word "suck". I need work on my initial clarity.

Oh yes... there's a few more things, hahaha. Except for following directions on a map, I'm bloody good at that!
Assembling things... I once wanted to build my son's new Lego pirate ship. Boy, did I regret that!! It turned out looking like a ship only cos my ex finished the mess I'd made, haha.

Well I can't speak for anyone else, but your thread didn't make me feel bad. Some of the things I listed are things I know I'm not good at, and other things are things I have worked on, yet there's still room for improvement. Thanks for clarifying. I like seeing it more as a happy acceptance of who I am, rather than what I suck at, even though I am okay with sucking at certain things

I figured I'd redo my list to clarify a little more.


This really isn't my thing, so I am okay that I don't seem to have the knack for it.


I'm way better than I was years ago, and continually work on this, but there's still a lot of room for improvement. Today I made amends to a girl I work with for how I confronted her the other day. I accept this is a challenge for me, and by taking responsibility for when I'm out of line, it helps me to grow closer towards where I'd like to be.


My strength is problem solving and fine tuning things, what I need to improve is discerning when it's okay to just let it be and that sometimes it's okay just the way it is...doesn't need to be perfect.


Still a work in progress, but I can at least look back now and laugh at my mistakes, and have learned from many of them...I hope


Not really my thing, so that's probably why I don't do well. My heart just isn't in to it. I find though that I do enjoy watching games, once they've started.


I used to hate this about myself. There was a time that once the tears started, they didn't stop...I've gotten much better with this. Others have told me to get thick skin or toughen up, but I am totally okay with being a sensitive woman. I just know when I am overtired, it's more of a challenge for me and I tend to be even more sensitive.

Thanks Beach, this is a great topic

This one

I need to be better at just letting things go for a day.

I Dislike coffee.

I don't know how to dance..but I suppose I can learn.

When I'm tired I just talk too much instead of relaxing and enjoying the moment of just being..

I'm not good in decision making, it always take so long for me to decide and if I do, I end up choosing the wrong one.

I don't like confrontations, it makes me cry easily , can't stop my tears rolling down on my face when I'm upset.

I can't help feeling emotional when it comes to serious talks , I always get teary eyed. I guess being over sensitive makes me feel so vulnerable.

I have weakness in falling in love with the wrong person I think I have a poor judgement of character

I am not punctual. I am always late which is actually intentional, because I don't like to wait for others I'm just not a morning person, I don't mind if I come to work late and get my salary deducted yet I would rather work overtime even without pay.

I prefer to work alone, I can concentrate better. I can't seem to think when people around me are passing back and forth but I can concentrate with music

I'm not good at organizing my things but I know where to find the things I need

I suck at living.

Yet you persist?