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For many people;LOVE is powerful;LOVE move or change several aspects of our lives;LOVE is synonymous of happiness;LOVE is the only reason to exist;LOVE is everything....and more. To find LOVE; are you ready to travel any distance and/or to relocate permanently even in other city or country? I'm curious to read your comments Have a nice day! You have to be careful when they are living very far away. I once started to fall for someone living in another country and they turned out to be a scammer, we exchanged emails for a month before they requested money, it was all very depressing for me. In my opinion you need to keep things friendly but not too friendly, until you are absolutely convinced they are whom they say they are and that takes time to establish. I no longer look for a long distance relationship because it is not an easy option, but if I found someone I really liked online, then I would take the risk in travelling to meet them, probably as a holiday for myself so if it all went wrong I would at least enjoy the holiday. If it all went right, then I would not rule out relocating. Same happened to me Duttoneer only it took longer for me to figure it out. For me, I wouldn't let that experience stop me from any future possibilities. It sucked and hurt, but was a lesson well learned and taught me to be more careful. I have since introduced a new condition, if they live in another country, they have to send me money to prove they are real. 
Good idea, I'll do the same...not really, lol. You made a lot of good points so thanks. It's sad when others take advantage of kind hearted and trusting people. But, it's life too and helps us be more mindful.
Just a question, Is there actually big difference between moving together with someone near you or with someone from another country? Seems like it's easier to move together with someone local, because then you have back-up door to walk out. If you have moved to another country and invested all your finances to moving, then you don't have back-up anymore, right? So, you want to be for 100% sure that if you are going to move to the other country, then the relationship is worth it and it's going to last. But with somebody near you requires less certainty and less responsibility, because you can always walk out of this. Is it really about moving then? Or maybe it's about level of commitment you are ready to make? |
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Edited by
Duttoneer
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Fri 05/12/17 01:43 PM
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^^^^ I agree there is a very big difference between relocating in your hometown, and relocating to another country. You need to give a lot of thought before starting a long distance relationship in my opinion, regarding the possibility of relocation, and what you are prepared to do, and what it would mean to you. If it were another country I would be spending some long holidays there in courting first, because I would need the level of commitment of living with/marriage to relocate, so there are more costs in time and money in courting someone living in another country, it is not an easy option. I believe if it is to live with/marry someone, then that in its self is the bigger risk, not the matter of whether they live local or the other side of the world, and if you are prepared to do that you must be in love with them, and if I were in love with them, then I would be prepared to relocate anywhere. |
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I believe if it is to live with/marry someone, then that in its self is the bigger risk, not the matter of whether they live local or the other side of the world, and if you are prepared to do that you must be in love with them, and if I were in love with them, then I would be prepared to relocate anywhere. Thank you! I got my answer. |
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I am able to relocate. There is nothing holding me here, but I'm not sure if I'd find someone that I'd love enough. This year is a perfect time for me to move.
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I am able to relocate. There is nothing holding me here, but I'm not sure if I'd find someone that I'd love enough. This year is a perfect time for me to move. I see Catin emerald eyes; you one of the few to relocate for love. But you have to find first; the reason to relocate and start a new life. I think you know how to do it and when and where. 
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for love I can anywhere or do anything
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