What helps the relationship succeed? Love or money

ahh.. the age old question ( rehashed for the 100th time)

Love sustains the relationship. But everyone needs money.. everyone

not too many gals trying to pick up the guys with no money in their pockets.. not many at all.

Communication.
What do you mean by "succeed?"
Longevity? Emotional fulfillment? Life goals fulfilled?

You mean fulfill the Disney fairytale of forever and ever, wallowing in constant emotional bliss, removing all negative consequences from everything? Like heroin?

You mean creating a family with kids, through group effort keeping the kids alive long enough, and well trained enough that they become self sufficient, and highly productive members of desired society, leading to their ability and desire to easily care for you when you can't care for yourself?

Short term purposes of emotional comfort and companionship?

Power couple that strengthens each others weaknesses for a synergistic approach to goals and focus on achievements external to the relationship?


Love is emotional bonding that reduces lust to keep people from straying and trying to procreate with others, keeps people sticking around each other long enough to have and raise kids.
Money is a store of work or effort.

So what's more important to the "success" of the relationship you want.
The bond of the relationship that gives it reason and fulfillment?
Or the ancillary support that gives it purpose and security?

Both love and money can help or hinder a relationship, depending on the relationship you want.

'Ships need fuel.

Great,But with love, a man can sculpt the rock for the sake of one who loves and must also do so to preserve his family.
What do I mean is that love can make a relationship without money or vice versa?

Does this mean that the poor can not love.
On the contrary, the most wonderful stories of love are found among the poor who love the soul without the existence of hidden interests

If you are broke, why not just come out and say so. then try for the above scenario.

FYI I am a lawyer and I earn a lot but I want to know why everyone is looking for money

depends on what the relationship needs. Though I have noticed over the years, that certain people do seem to feel more love, when the money is there.

You're absolutely right

Does stories mean hypothetical examples and fairytales?
Or does that mean actual people you know?
Love is intangible and the definition depends on the person defining it.
Sustaining a relationship takes time, effort communication, respect, acceptance. Etc.

If a person doesn't have money you really have to wonder why?
I don't mean lots of money but ateast being self sufficient. Sustaining a job.
One of the main arguments the couples i know have is about money. When times get hard tgey forget about we and it all becomes about the individual.

Speaking for myself both are important.

Money of course..that's how the tombs gets all his womens..now I'm not saying they're the marrying kindz buts theyz get the job done.Take for instance Shaquina ok ok so she's missing a few teeth due to gum disease and her left breasteses is misshapened got 8 kids by ten different daddies but she's good for a twenty and then down the block ..

theres Maggie a wannabe wif two kids and a dog wif three legs but he gets around ok and altho her house smells like a diaper dumpster that needed emptied last year yea ok she be a lazy ho and her breathe stinks like the local garbage truck but she's cheap usually a fiver and a half a pack of lucky strikes and shell go all night ifn ya buy her a forty

so yea it's money for sure ..

for the same reason you were looking for it when you became a lawyer... because everyone needs money. you to.. right?

Both help...with love preceding. Chances are without love, if there was no money, the relationship would fail the test of stress it creates. With love, the relationship can endure the test of stress that not having money creates.

Depends how much she's worth

Well done

Nice words

hi

Definitely love. Money comes and money goes but I would rather eat beans and have someone who cares for the real me than a mattress stiffed with money and someone who wants me for an ornament. Or doesn't want me at all but snufs the life out of my existence by holding me hostage to keep appearances.

Definitely love. Money comes and money goes but I would rather eat beans and have someone who cares for the real me than a mattress stiffed with money and someone who wants me for an ornament. Or doesn't want me at all but snufs the life out of my existence by holding me hostage to keep appearances.