Why is it hard for females just to be loyal and faithful????

I know.. it is a big problem

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Dr. Stanley Greeneyes
Greeneyes therapy LLC

Erm... I think throughout my entire life I've only once had a galpal who strayed. And she didn't because she wanted to but cos of ongoing relationship problems. Basic needs and stuff. I've never known any woman who willingly and eagerly cheated or lied.

Why make a sweeping generalization instead of getting to kniw individuals?

Are you saying you are having a hard time being a loyal faithful person ?

People do what they do. Maybe it shouldn't be their actions you should question but you own choices?

People only live up to the higher ideals that are valued and supported by their group(s), and/or those which validate their identity.

If there's no benefit to being loyal and faithful, people won't be.
If there's no purpose to being loyal and faithful, people won't be.
If there's a greater benefit to being disloyal and unfaithful, people will be.
If there's a desired purpose fulfilled by being disloyal and unfaithful, people will be.

So maybe:

they grew up with current ideas like "I don't need no man!(or woman)" and "I can raise kids by myself!" and "I'm independent!" and "I'm just as good as anyone." and "Don't judge me! You don't know me!" and "Be yourself. Express yourself." and "you need to earn my trust!" and "plenty of fish in the sea!" and "celebrate diversity!" and "get paid, yo!" and "peer pressure is bad!"

Lots of things about individuality, adaptability, change, utility, even status climbing.
Not so much about keep the status quo by sacrificing to maintain the bonds of fidelity and loyalty.

I would say some may have been hurt badly by someone ...
and they cheated on them ... so some women think ... well
if he wants to be like that... why can't I ...
but really that is the wrong way to go about it ...
when you should just really end the relationship ...
This comes from experience... when I say this ...
we are not always alike or mature enough...

Yep, she is referring to herself not on our behalf...Well I guess she needs professional help to dig into her childhood to justify her question...She might find some answers in there....

There were a couple of relationships I was in where I never wandered my eye. I never put that restriction on the lady I loved. Even though they didn't work, I still hold strong to that philosophy.