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Topic: Love at first sight
GeorgeNoel's photo
Sat 03/04/17 11:23 PM
Do you believe in it or not

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Sun 03/05/17 12:53 AM
I do. But it doesn't happen often.

martinmelvin's photo
Sun 03/05/17 02:04 AM
maybe... but i prefer knowing each other before falling in lovr

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Sun 03/05/17 02:14 AM
yeah it's actually good to knowing each other before falling in love..

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 03/05/17 04:06 AM
No, absolutely not.

But it can seem to happen, serendipitously.

I can see someone for the first time, have a special positive reaction to their appearance, feel a tremendous hunger for my fantasy of them, and then if I'm very very lucky, my actual experience with them will match up to the fantasy.

But no, I think that that first sensation isn't love.

Of course, I've come to be VERY selective about my definition of love.


mightymoe's photo
Sun 03/05/17 05:02 AM
Yes, happens all the time with women to me.... But then they start talking and ruin it....

mzrosie's photo
Sun 03/05/17 05:10 AM
Yes, it could happen. It hasn't happen to me yet but miracles do happen.
:heart: happy

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Sun 03/05/17 05:10 AM

Yes, happens all the time with women to me.... But then they start talking and ruin it....

rofl thanks for that...laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/05/17 05:23 AM
Yeppiers still believe in it... bigsmile




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Sun 03/05/17 05:31 AM

Do you believe in it or not


IMO

Love takes time to build and it is built from the inside out.

I think there could be a strong attraction at first sight.. but not love.

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Sun 03/05/17 06:07 AM
Love at first sight
Do you believe in it or not

I believe it's possible as a function of the brain.

Parents do it with their babies all the time.

I believe it's a condition of the brain of a small minority of people.
I do not believe it's an acquired skill.
I believe the vast majority of those that believe in it or think they've experienced it are simply using it as a means of feeling special, avoiding responsibility, avoiding thinking, and just want to feel. Little different than crack addicts.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sun 03/05/17 06:39 AM
Considering that every person feels love differently I imagine that it could happen for some people.

Also considering that most people do not display their true selves at all times, love at first sight might be love for a certain aspect of the person as displayed but not necessarily the entire being of that person.

Love at First Sight actually means Love at First Encounter. I have never fell in love with anyone from just looking at their picture.

I have never met anybody that loves everything about someone else entirely. There are always tolerances given. Exceptions made. Love only happens for me when the things I love about them exceed the tolerances and exceptions I make for the things I don't love about them. Love takes time, honesty and togetherness.

Ask yourself if you are in love with that person or in love with the idea of being in love with that person?

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 03/05/17 09:07 AM

Do you believe in it or not




maybe for some people ... but once... I have spoken to them ...
just did not seem like ...
we had anything in command but the looks ...

soufiehere's photo
Sun 03/05/17 09:10 AM

Yes, happens all the time with women to me.... But then they start talking and ruin it....

Or posting..

NotPay4Play's photo
Sun 03/05/17 09:13 AM
Negative. I do not believe in love at first sight...

Now lust at first sight.... Yup happens to me all the time. frustrated frustrated

KimmiA33's photo
Mon 03/06/17 02:59 PM
Yes but it's quite rare.

ash14777's photo
Mon 03/06/17 03:48 PM
Yes i do

Shawn450's photo
Mon 03/06/17 03:57 PM
yeah I actually believe in love at first sight thou..... its just so normal....

VICTOR234567's photo
Mon 03/06/17 04:20 PM
you are right

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Mon 03/06/17 04:37 PM
No. It might be lust or desperation but it won't be love.

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