The differences is The Giver will make Valentine's Day a huge event..
Bust their *** sending sugary sweet text messages.. getting balloons flowers .. even planning out a special meal at home.. are making dinner reservations..

What does the taker do... as little as possible... you would be lucky if you get one text the whole day from them..
And it won't be anything over the top..
Then they will say I was busy at work..
Ummm. Did you have a coffee or smoke break.. maybe even lunch..
Yup.. they just don't get it..lol