Topic: getting dumped
lovablehaley's photo
Sat 02/04/17 12:52 PM
so as usual I got dumped..I did cause it however...but still sucks... he was one of a kind... it'll prob take me loonnnnng time to find man for me

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Sat 02/04/17 12:57 PM
Oh poor you x
if you got dumped as usual and it was your fault why not have a good think about why and see if you can pick up the pieces, if not then put it down to experience and try not to duplicate them also better to start a fresh and not try find the same in the next guy. good luck x

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Sat 02/04/17 01:25 PM

so as usual I got dumped..I did cause it however...but still sucks... he was one of a kind... it'll prob take me loonnnnng time to find man for me

If you had it all figured out by the age of 18, you
wouldn't really have to live your life, would you?

You have nothing BUT time..hopefully the ones along
your path are good people that you learn from so that
the final choice is a good one.

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Sat 02/04/17 01:31 PM
Hoiih

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Sat 02/04/17 01:31 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sat 02/04/17 01:36 PM

so as usual I got dumped..I did cause it however...but still sucks... he was one of a kind... it'll prob take me loonnnnng time to find man for me



well if he was the right one for you ...
why did you cause it ... if subconsciously you wanted out ...

I just read before a post ... when one door closes...
and another one will open and there you might find ...
what you think really might be the right guy for you along with the one...you might want to stay with nxt time ...


ok all of that is just a bunch of balarky ...:cry:

good luck in finding another ... and of course it s*cks ...
laugh

flowerforyou well wishes ...
and as Sophie said your young yet...


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Sun 02/05/17 02:45 AM

so as usual I got dumped..I did cause it however...but still sucks... he was one of a kind... it'll prob take me loonnnnng time to find man for me


It is not unusual to be dumped in your teenage years, you are very lucky if you find the right one for you straight away. You will probably have to kiss a few more frogs before finding him.

Welcome to Mingle2 and Good Luck in your search.

navygirl's photo
Mon 02/06/17 03:29 PM
Edited by navygirl on Mon 02/06/17 03:29 PM

so as usual I got dumped..I did cause it however...but still sucks... he was one of a kind... it'll prob take me loonnnnng time to find man for me


Wait until you to get to my age. Being dumped is routine. I would be more surprised if I wasn't dumped. LOL Seriously though; I agree with what people are saying that he wasn't the right one. Take time to enjoy and live life. Don't rush into a relationship if you are not ready for it.

bloomerj's photo
Tue 02/07/17 12:38 AM
change your way dear

timmysarge's photo
Mon 02/13/17 08:23 AM
hello beautiful how are you doing today I'll get u over him I promise I no how to treat a lady

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Mon 02/13/17 08:50 AM
Edited by no1phD on Mon 02/13/17 08:52 AM
Yes.. breaking up is hard to do especially if you're the one.. who is being broken up with.. you usually don't see it coming..but. to be honest all the signs are there.. that it is coming... now maybe because your inability to.. see the signs and to take actions to correct the issue could be a problem.. maybe you're just totally oblivious to any issues which could be the problem..lol..but whatever the case it is hurtful.on both sides. it is always nice to have a partner that is leaving you help you deal with the loss..
Maybe explain in the nicest way possible.. why they are leaving you the relationship.. and in those words may..be a key to you... to better yourself for the next coming relationship... but that is often hard to do giving the hurt feelings and pain one person or both parties are going through at the time.... always best to try to end things on a good note if possible..but. that's usually up to the other person..lol...
Sometimes the person doing The Break-Up finds it as difficult as well..
Nobody likes to be cruel to another person.. deliberately hurt them...
That's why when most people break up they don't really say why they're truly breaking up.. especially if it's a physical issue... but if it's an intellectual or emotional issue then they're usually pretty good at saying that's what the problem was...ie. I'm not getting from the relationship what I'required...need in a partner..
. And if that's the case and you can't..find it within yourself.. to meet your partner's needs..then. you need to find a way to be okay with that..
And do a little serious soul-searching..
And ask yourself was I truly not able to meet their needs...and why..
It will help you be a better person..in the long run.... sometimes people just lose a connection.. with one another..
.. and if they can't reconnect. After seriously face to face trying... because usually requires a bit of work on both sides ..well.then call it quits.
.. but we all know by now there's a lot of reasons for a relationship to fall apart... but it only takes two people willing to give to each other. And take from each other openly honestly.. respectfully... without Hang Ups..
Truly knowing who you are your strengths and weaknesses.. and how to effectively Express that.. to make a long-lasting relationship...
It is very rare to find these qualities in yourself and another person...
So you're going to have to break a lot of eggs to make that .. omelette.. or kiss a lot of frogs..lol

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Mon 02/13/17 10:00 AM
Its probably not as bad as you think. There are a lot of people out there to meet and date. It's just like anything else. The more you spread your wings and be social and outgoing the easier it is to find.

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Mon 02/13/17 02:20 PM
Hi beauty angel, Don't loss hope....Their are still real and true guys that will care and protect a beautiful woman like you..if you doubt, let's hook :up: