I know Im here for a reason.........Im not quite sure what Gods plan is.......or whoever is up in those clouds.......

Well, Gypse tell him/her to aim better! They are wissing on me!

ohhhhhhhhhhhh a little rain never killed us.........now snow is a different story......

Damn, and I thought it was only rain. Guess I better go take a shower.

Now there's a bladder!

The cyclone up north has a message for me, I just know it...it will come and blow my roof off...I can feel it in my bones...

Maybe that's why I am here...looking for a new roof...just in case.

Talk to Gypsy! Its Her fault!

I don't agree with this...not 100% at least.

See, I am here to meet women and also make some guy friends to. I have been here for about two weeks now, and have met many interesting people, and made some friends to. Now, do I think I can meet someone here and have a relationship beyond friendship? Yes I do.

You talked about how people can take advantage of you openly on the net. Well, that can also happen out in real world too. I mean, how many times have you seen a guy pick up a girl at a club for the purpose of a one nighter? You hear people say all the time how they don't feel a club is the right place to meet "Mr. or Mrs. Right". But, we go to a club looking spiffy in the hopes that we can find someone there. And it usually isn't going out to meet the future spouse. My point is this. At least on sites like JSH, you can be yourself and also play the role of something else. You might be in a "comfort zone" but at least at home you can log on and make friends from all over and still be in your PJ's. You can talk to people, have fun flirting, and it is all in the comfort of your home. You don't have to go out to find a man or woman. You can develop a friendship here and you can see if one of those friendships can lead to something more.

Now, I do realize that people can lie about who they are on here. I have heard the stories. But, even in the flesh, people still lie about who they are. That won't change. Dating is always risky. Always has been, always will be. However, when you come to sites like this, you do a combatability test. I know these are not 100% accurate, but it is still effective. You are shown people who you match up with, and then you move on from there. For me, it has been on the forums where I feel that you really get to know people. If you talk to them one on one, you really get to know them. And that is a good thing.

So, I don't feel it is unreasonable to be seeking to find a relationship on JSH. I think you can, but I feel you should do it in the right way. Take time to make friends and then see where something might lead to.

Good job Goof.

Ya know it babe!

*applause*


Goodness Goofball, all that after a night of work?


Seriously though, well said dude.

I do agree with Goof. I am also a firm believer that there is someone out there that is meant for everyone. You will meet them one day whether it is online or standing in line somewhere. And just because someone might say there are here just for friends, doesnt mean that they are against the idea. Love shows up when you least expect it.

^5 Soonergal



I wouldnt know it if someone was interested in me or not. They would need to hit me over the head with something, or tell me verbatim...word for word.

I HAVE to believe there is someone for everyone, if not... I would seriously lose hope.

When it happened, we were both just drawn to eachother. It was like we had known eachother all our lives. Greatest thing that ever happened to me.

sage your a lucky man.i have yet to find the one.i married three thinking they were but it turned out to be something else in each case.i'm here hoping i will finally find the man that makes me feel like you did and still do,about your wife.
I do hope sage that while you may never find another like her,that you find someone again to keep you warm.
jackie

i did meet the ideal woman but due to me being insecure[maybe ] i did eventually lose her after we both cried and hugged each other the day we parted i do believe there is someone out there for everyone

There is... just got to be open to it...

Open???? hahahahahaha...yep....sure....and the toothfairy is my cousin....

I'm on here mostly looking for some casual conversation. I have friends, but it's nice to be able to find someone with a quick wit to talk to.

Im here to make friends, and have lots of chats with people, and learn about me, by listening to the tales of others, and seeing what fits, and what doesnt.

Any thought that makes you think ... if you know what I mean ... helps us grow as us.

Jane