Guess I waited too lomg to come looking for that special person.
The replies I`ve gotten here are from much older men, who seem like they never took care of themselves....Like the longer beards, Sloching figure, & really large pics of dogs or fish in their photos. I reminds me of a grandfather type. I still need someone vibrant, & wanting a relationship with someone who still wants love & companionship.

I had to raise my kids on my own from 2 ex`s that didn`t contribute anything. One was extreemly abusive, then got shot in a triple murdure.
The other created a situation of me helping to raise his 4 kids financially, then got someone pregnant, & left me with nothing, after I wrote out a check for his ex for $3500 back child support. So, at 45, I had to start over from scratch. I had no time for dating.

Even though it is late, I an still hoping I can find a decent man that wants what I want.
I am welcoming comments.

Hi welcome to the forums..

Ummmm I don't mean to be rude but I peeked at your profile..
There is a lot older men...
Dang I didn't know that.

sorry for your past troubles.

no tears no smiles....life is on the way and we must have to face it

There's all kinds of young men looking for older women.

If you are seeking someone attractive who has done things right in life well,odds are most are already "taken" however, those currently available are just that more rare to find and sometimes timing is everything.

On a side note, you know the saying... you get what you pay for. Given this site is free perhaps those here invest in themselves or their future a bit less and they are seeing who will accept them without even putting in much effort.
They feel they had no one worth trying for for to long and now just want some company.
Maybe you could be the motivating factor, who knows, maybe they clean up well : )

Seems like you previously were just attracting the wrong men, the confident kind that easily get what they want at the time but have no patience or discipline to own up to responsibility.
The good shy guys rarely speak up so keep your initiative : )

Your match might just be at the next activity you have yet to sign up for or maybe you have another page to load in a different book so to speak.

You can't rush aging wine to meet it's perfection and who knows, maybe your ideal match is a bit younger : )