Pops in for one last visit to this thread "fart" and race to the door before Sunday beats me to it.

Why can't we all just get along???? Play by the rules...this is a free site. Things get stirred up and it won't be here anymore. I enjoy this site and have lots of friends. It's supposed to be a friendly site...not a bar brawl. If you can't take the heat from a discussion walk away like Mike said. Count to ten or a hundred.

Just in case you want to read it all for yourselves...


http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/49468

the tongue is the cruelest weapon
it can cut heart and soul and
infect the wounds with necrotizing rot
moreover, what is said can not be taken back
in the heat of the moment a great damage
is swiftly effected

Jess and Gypsy - i MISS you both so
this community is greatly diminished by your
absence as large holes diminish a colorful tapestry
for it is your tenure here and the quality
of your participation which permeates
the site and infuses it with meaning and laughter
so your absence is more than someone who merely
pops in for a flaming post then fades away
and well i have come to feel an appreciation for
Mike and Van too over the last few months so
i know i know that this was considered and
that they realize the consequences of their actions
and inactions all too well and well...
they are in an uncomfortable position in these circs

so we will all hurt for a little while from this
caustic stain
this acidic fruit of words

i can recommend the excellent book
"Words that hurt, Words that heal..." by Telushkin
a book worth reading

but this is going to hurt more before it heals
i feel for all my friends...as our playground becomes
a little colder when you are gone...

Man.........you get busy with a wedding (thank you, JSH!!!), sign the license, and BAM! Walk into such turmoil... Come into my world, peeps.......calm and serene. TeeHee.

They'll be back....but yes, they will be missed until then.

A cup of love for everyone~~~~~~~~~~

You are requesting that Jess and Gypsy come back, but what about Bl8ant ...

That is an outright ban.

Its amazing how some things are so abhorrent to the general public that they will cry and whinge and b1tch.

But there are some posts on this site that have turned my stomach with their cruidity and insulting material.

The "offenders" of these posts are still free to post their vitriol and bile.

This is an adult site and everyone knows that you will get into "it" on a regular basis.

A temporary ban may be in order, but an outright termination is not right, especially when there are some people on here that have escaped censure totally

Geeze the things that happen when you go to bed with a headache........


I personally will miss Jesse and Gypsy, love their sense of humors, and have a feeling that the threads will be on the quiet side until they come back.

I will miss all 3 of them.

Bummer that I missed it.I have company so I missed it.Probably wouldv'e got booted defending them.

Alex is such a good friend of a few of my friends here, and her absence is a travesty of justice... for defending her friend, she WAS right for feeling that need, she WAS right...

Unfortunately, you sometimes break rules while being right.

Im confused on why Bl8ant got suspended.........maybe I need to reread the thread.

Lets warp forward a week.......

well i never seen jess

post anything to get removed for

here responses are usually very diplomatic

i think i will stop there

As usual the woman victim of sexual verbal abuse got suspended along with the victimizer.Jess was very mature and so were the other two.If the man in question hadn't started with his crude,rude remarks,the women would not have seen the need to defend a sister in trouble.
Jess and Alex have been my friends seems forever and gypsy is a delight.
Bring em back!!!

well mike i must protest

when i was attacked by the girl

gold something or other and her friends

they attacked with much more hatered

and were unprovoked

i did repost things they said to me

and you told me i should have expected it

it seems to me that you pick and choose

inappropriately if they were not at least suspended (they were not)

jess should not have been

i have had to block gold something form my email list

because she continued attacking after your saying to stop

but maybe it is ok to attack some

and not others

but hey what do i know

oh robin shut up.
huggles

i just reread the entire thread...i can't understand why alex (or lee and gypsy) are gone.

anything that lee (jess) has ever said...has always been above board. speaking of someone's educational level isn't a freaking slam if it's true, heh.

i'm sorry...alex and lee are possibly the two most intelligent women ON this forum...they were met with hatred and innuendo, and then THEY were punished for it. this isn't a vanilla world...we don't always agree. jess doesn't lose her cool...she keeps it.

Didn't Spur get suspended as well? I read that whole thread. If he didn't get suspended, that's a travesty of justice, in my opinion.

I don't know what thread this is and I can't figure it out but if jess and gypsy have got suspended then I may be in danger of the same. I get opinionated and confrontational myself sometimes, so I guess I need to slow my roll then too.

lighting smudge stick....
Chanting
removing negative energy

Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum
Om Mani Padme Hum


There all better