You got what you paid for.

hmmm--what now?--

Both Jess and Gypsy had been warned in the past, so they clearly knew the site rules when they posted.

Here's some of the attacks Jess made:

"Apparently....I can tell your level of education by your literacy skills....no argument there... "

"oh, let me spell it out, so you can understand it....

you can't get it up , and your impotence shows by your useless suggestive disgusting comments. "

...and there were others.

Here's some of the attacks Gypsy made:

"Now spur, when you get a brain, and a **** dont get them mixed up and suck the wrong end!"

"I think we flushed the verbal diarrhea down the toilet.....[referring to another member]"

As for the other participants in that thread, they've either been warned, had their posting privileges suspended, or been banned outright depending on the degree of their violation, and whether they'd been warned in the past. So it's not just Jess and Gypsy that have been punished.

As for not caring about our members, well, I guess you can believe what you want. But it's Saturday night at 2am, and I'm posting on the boards answering member questions, so take from that what you will.

Self-defense??????????????????????????????????????????????

Well, that's wonderful and all but the e-mails, 3 to be exact, were relatively important (to me only as I now see) and I was hoping for a little closure on it before I decided to just delete my account.

Self-defense is not an excuse. This is stated very clearly in the forum rules.

FORUM RULES

1) Do not attack/slam/insult others. You can discuss the message or topic, but not the messenger - NO EXCEPTIONS. If you are attacked by another user, and you reciprocate, YOU will also be subject to the same consequences. Defending yourself, defending a friend, etc. are NOT excuses. Violations of this rule are taken very seriously and may result in being banned without warning!

Mike...glad to meet you, and this is a wonderful site with many good people on it...

I understand your position on this issue, and I would hope that the measure used would be equivilant to the crime... and Spur was VERY VERY ABRASIVE AND CRUDE... intentionally provoking.

I agree, and Spur has been punished as well.

sincereman - I will email you as soon as I can. I do apologize for the delay. As you can imagine, we get a LOT of mail every day, and we don't always get to answer people as quickly as we'd like. But I will respond to you as soon as I'm able.

No need, I just e-mailed you so do with that what you will.

Get that right sinny its Saturday night not Friday night....haha

sincereman51, you are not really serious are you? Why would you request for a response to your e-mailes when you want to leave the site. Is it a life and death situation? Distinguish the difference and if the outcome don't benefit you just bail out like a man. Though, I am going to miss ya post heaps.

Remember this is a freebie site and we should be grateful we have a place to hangout and it didn't cost us anything.

The little time I've been here I met heaps of minds alike and thanks to Mike and Van for making it possible for all of us. I know I am not perfect, I have broken the rules here many times and if I get the boot, its ok, its only a site but I will never forget all that I cross path with here.

I guess I better get me crochet needle out and start crocheting a pair of thongs for Jess and Gypsy as a welcome back gifts for them when they return

i know a few people including jess were saying things in defence to me to somone in a thread i made last night and if they got suspended for the things put in there then i want to say sorry to you all.
i never meant for anyone to get suspended or banned and if its cos of my thread then i really am sorry

wow, well let me just say that I usually stay out of the line of fire. So when things get crazy, I stay out of that thread!

We are supposed to have fun doing this, and like the old saying goes, "If you can't say something nice, then don't say anything at all."

Mike, I never did read that thread, but I can see why you made the decisions you made. That kind of name calling and nonsense does not belong on here...

Sin,

Don't take this the wrong way but I would request that you not tell me how to handle my situation as you have no idea what is going on. Secondly, I may delete my account once I have had a chat with Mike about "the situation" which has nothing to do with Jess and Gypsy by the way.

Thanks

And one more thing: Sincere, don't leave. It won't be the same here without you. Just take a break for a few days instead?

I'm pissed off at how things are handled here and jess and gypsy being banned was just something to piss me off more because certain people, deserve to be banned and it surely wasn't them. There are a few people on this site who have some major problems and THOSE people, even though they have done worse than Jess and Gypsy, are still here.

I find that 100% pathetic.

sincereman51 - I enjoyed your company as much as Gyps and Jess, heck all the regulars...

Just to clarify...

I believe it is as plain as day who started that abusive language...and it was reported early, before most of the defense statements were made. Mike and Van are obviously very busy, and they do the best that they can to manage this site.

In case of those who did not understand why the women resorted to such measures... the report was made...the abuse continued... the talk was of "moustache rides...riding my face...sweet cheeks..."etc.,etc... because it seemed as though nothing was going to be done about it...it left the polite defensive position no place to be... we all know that sometimes you must "fight back" or get your butt whooped... and fighting back does break the rules... unfortunately

Avoidance is the best measure now-a-days... unless the perp takes away your right to avoid it... which almost cannot happen in this forum... so, we all must learn to ignore ignorance...lol...

Sincereman... whooa dude.... they are not banned... just suspended posting rights... chill

Well, no matter what anyone thinks of me, the one thing I am is fair. When I find something to be un-fair, I get pissed and the situation I am trying to get resolved has to do with that.

This has nothing to do with "regulars" or "newbies" this has to do with certain people on this site that get away with murder.

BS

Anyway, I'm done barking cause my throat hurts now.

Peace