Topic: interests being "tell you later"
bibarnes's photo
Thu 08/04/16 06:35 AM
I don't know if men do this, but a lot of women do. I don't bother going any further and skip or say know. Regardless of looks or eyes (important to me). Any of you ladies care to explain? I understand the idea of mystery, but secrecy where you have to know the password, fuggedaboudit.

TMommy's photo
Thu 08/04/16 06:38 AM
either laziness or they got something to hide

peggy122's photo
Thu 08/04/16 06:49 AM
Most of the men here do the same thing unfortunately. And most of them don't fill out the rest of their profile either so there is nothing to stir your interest other than a fake profile pic a lot of the time. Sometimes its because they are scammers. Sometimes its because they are just here to kill time , and lack focus. And sometimes its because they prefer to save those conversational titbits for an actual conversation.

Either way, Im with you on this one bibarnes. NEXT!!! ohwell

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 08/05/16 02:24 AM
Well, I've been there when I haven't filled out anything to begin with either. On some sites it takes forever to go through all that, and all I want is to check out if the site itself is worth my time or not. So I learnt I best skip all the stuff, just become a member, check it out, and if I don't like it, I'm gone.
At least that way I won't have wasted my time. I mostly do that on sites that don't allow you to see anything much until you've signed up.
I never did that at first, but quickly learnt to change my MO. Many dating sites don't have quality members, some hardly have any members at all.
If a site is worthwhile, I just fill out the details later and upload photos too.

Rooster35's photo
Fri 08/05/16 02:31 AM
Edited by Rooster35 on Fri 08/05/16 02:31 AM

I don't know if men do this, but a lot of women do. I don't bother going any further and skip or say know. Regardless of looks or eyes (important to me). Any of you ladies care to explain? I understand the idea of mystery, but secrecy where you have to know the password, fuggedaboudit.


When they're not scammers it's pure laziness and a lack of education.
A smart guy wouldn't even bother with those women whose profiles say NOTHING about them. In fact, they save us time!

"I'll tell you later"
"NO you won't, NEXT!" laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/05/16 05:48 AM
Hate to burst y'alls bubbles but the I'll Tell You Later is automatic by the system if members have not filled out the profile yet.. whoa

no photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:34 AM

Hate to burst y'alls bubbles but the I'll Tell You Later is automatic by the system if members have not filled out the profile yet.. whoa
Yes and I think a lot of those could be from people joining and just seeing what the site is like. I did that when I first joined....and have been slowly adding to my profile.

TMommy's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:46 AM
huh..I have been slowly detracting from mine since joining

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:49 AM

huh..I have been slowly detracting from mine since joining


I did the same took most of mine off. Heck I don't care what is on a profile you can find out all you want by actually talking to them....

TMommy's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:51 AM


huh..I have been slowly detracting from mine since joining


I did the same took most of mine off. Heck I don't care what is on a profile you can find out all you want by actually talking to them....
think ya get to the point that ya realize by responses

most are not bothering to read it anyways

and I agree

if he is really interested in you

then he will take the time to find out about who you are

no photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:55 AM

huh..I have been slowly detracting from mine since joining
Yea but you're a rebel laugh

TMommy's photo
Fri 08/05/16 08:55 AM


huh..I have been slowly detracting from mine since joining
Yea but you're a rebel laugh
no no no you're the rebel..I am just the pain in the hinnie winking

tmh1063's photo
Sat 08/06/16 09:55 AM

I don't know if men do this, but a lot of women do. I don't bother going any further and skip or say know. Regardless of looks or eyes (important to me). Any of you ladies care to explain? I understand the idea of mystery, but secrecy where you have to know the password, fuggedaboudit.


I see this a lot in men's profiles, and the first paragraph consists of one word, "Hi" and they don't fill out anything else. I don't even bother with them. If they can't take the time to fill in any information then they aren't looking to hard for anything meaningful. :tongue: frustrated