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someone who's not afraid of lifelong commitment...
family oriented...

I've never chosen to fall in love with someone. It either happened or it didn't.

This is ditto..
I dont' think I have ever set out to fall in love with a set person.

I know the type of person I tend to be interested in.
But I can't ever remember choosing to fall in love it just happened.

I choose to fall in love with someone who completely respects my free will, but renders me powerless

heh heh....."choose"

I choose to trip gently into compatibility

I don't set any criteria in choosing someone to love, I believe in SERENDIPITY finding something wonderful without looking for it........love happens in an unexpected way, it is my heart that recognizes love when it comes

My waifu.

Everytime I choose a type, another type comes along, so I will just slow down and see how it ends after the deck has been shuffled.

Ha haa... "Soulmate" its nt word to choose anyone who looks b'full to eyes.. Soulmates are like pre installed apps wid mobliles dey alrdy decided in heaven nly.. Bt d fact is v jst hv to wait until our soul start beating for mates.. ;-) ;-)

Now that I like :) Very poetic

In thinking about a specific type of person you could become very "Picky" in my opinion. I prefer to keep an open mind, if there is an initial attraction I would want to see where it leads us.

I don't choose to fall in love. It just happens.
Also has nothing to do with a specific type. I let go of that idea a while back. There is no such thing as a type. A specific type may easily ring my bell, but that's nothing to do with (falling in) love.

I suspect you meant what kind of person we would want to explore a romance with

Im really drawn to men who are witty, humorous and can talk intelligently about any topic . And its important to me that they be pretty consistent in their moods, communication and behavior, not just towards me but towards people in general.

I will take those attributes over all the grand ( and fleeting) romantic gestures and corny declarations of love anyday.

And ofcourse added to that, it's just necessary to find someone with whom you share physical chemistry, and compatible core values, goals and lifestyles . I dont think there is anyway around that.

Hi

As a teen boy, I had this belief that I would fall in love with a woman and that would be that. I had no clue what she looked like but I believed she was out there. As I have aged, experienced life, been through a divorce and have experienced dating as an adult I can tell you that I still have no idea the kind of woman I will fall for. However, I do know what I don't want...which is to "fake" fall for a woman just so I won't be single. I have seen so many people settle simply because they feared being alone. If and when I meet a woman who just rocks my socks then I will commit to her for as long as I live. Sure. Things like integrity, silliness, attraction, chemistry (yes even sexual) and that deep felt love that we all desire are things I will look for. Or perhaps she will just hit me over the head with an iron skillet and tell me I am hers. Now that is sexy.

Let's see, ummm, I don't know......hopefully I will love myself and respect myself enough to recognize someone that is true to themselves but still respects me in the process. Someone that's loves and respects themselves as well. If not I am happy now.

its an unconscious emotional choice.....we are looking for our imago match..


do not take my word for it do the research, you will find i am correct....the

last person we ever get to really know and love is ourselves......