Why do people visit your profile , read all your posts the totally ingnor you...is it too
much to say hi,thanx but no thanks...



Im a big boy now so being rejected by a stranger is no biggy but a hello is not hardto S ean

In my experience.. I have gone into someones profile by accident...I've been on my iphone and oops, I've clicked onto someones profile.. same with my laptop (using the finger thing, not a mouse)...and boom... same thing..
Sometimes I look just to see where a person is from - if you are 'overseas' or nowhere near me, then its likely I will just exit with no message.

Why should a person write to you if the person is not interested in you after reading your profile?

The fact that you are not receiving private messages doesn't imply that others are doing something wrong.

Nobody is obligated to write to someone because they read a profile. If someone reads my profile, they might not like it. That's ok. I read a lot of profiles. Sometimes I like them but I don't think we are right for each other.

Whoa what posts??? You have 3...
And do you stop and chat with each person on the street.
I may nod as I keep going..

why say hello if they are only gonna say good bye


think of it as window shopping

Because they don't want to talk to you.
Maybe at one point they did, but then changed their mind.


It is when you don't really want to talk to someone.


If that were true I don't think this forum thread would exist.


It can be when there is absolutely no motivation to do it.

Other than that

Did you mean "why do people visit your profile, and then when you write to them they read your email and don't reply?"

Or did you literally mean it as written, ignoring your posts? Like forum posts?

One thing I've discovered is if you have ad blocker running you can't check your email or write one until you turn it off. You can go on the forums, you can view profiles, it's just your inbox that is restricted.

That could be a potential factor.

And remember only a small percentage of women on dating site are actually looking for a relationship. So the question is how do you weed through to reach the few that are actually looking for a relationship. No easy task. You are probably better off searching else where.

It's because a lot of us are just really shy

It is a datesite not F@ckbook
Just because, someone views you, does NOT mean they want to date you or are interested in you.

If you are on forums, you will get more views. People want to know what they are dealing with. They would be a fool not to.

In real life, if a woman says good "morning", "hello", "how are you?", or laughs at a man's joke, she is NOT saying.. " I want you now, big boy"

Some of the views may also be fake accounts that are there for less than a day. So don't always assume it's a real person looking at you.

Best of luck and I hope you find some connections here!

Right, so you expect ppl to go through profiles and then send each person they do not like -which is most- a message "Hi thanks, but no thanks"?
Thanks for what? He hasn't done anything has he?

It's like looking at strangers in the street and telling each person you aren't interested in -which is most ppl- "Hi, thanks, but no thanks."
someone would likely phone the authorities and have you taken away in a straight-jacket for a thorough mental examination.

Because they can

Maybe they are an under-the-covers police-woman??
Oh wait...

My bad....
That's a different story