I know it seems disgusting but how wrong would it be. If she's a personal trainer and looks like she's in her 30s ect ? Also if she's married but open to it. I'm very hesitate due to the married part. Your thoughts ?

Only if it were my mom or wife.


Very if it were my mom or wife.


Why would that matter?


Is her husband open to it?
If not then it's not really disgusting so much as immoral.


I don't really care.
I know I wouldn't do it. But I'm not 20 and incapable of thinking outside my shorts.
For all I know she has HIV and herpes from her husband who cheated on her and is hell bent on spreading it to as many people as possible that are willing to help her cheat on him, all as a means to get back at all the cheaters of the world.

Other than that, the only 20 year old's I knew that were into 50 year old's had a lot of emotional problems which were exacerbated since the 50 year old's would tend not to pull their punches against the 20 year old's naivety and lack of experience.

The 50 year old's generally "knew what they wanted" and that included when they knew what they didn't want, they had no problem communicating how little they actually wanted the 20 year old around anymore, and doing anything in their power to make sure the 20 year old couldn't interfere with their life in any way or bring in any drama.
Legal issues (restraining orders, suing the 20 year old for vandalism or stalking), calls to friends in school administration, to parents.

The only 20/50 year old sex based fun relationships that didn't lead to a lot of problems were between people of similar socioeconomic status.
They a poor college kid, the other a poor trailer trash retail or food service employee that never grew up.
And it would have been in the best interest of the 20 year old just to find someone their own age that had a decent job.

Her hubby will kill you....

And pics of this personal trainer....only to be able to make a fully informed decision.

omg, what is this almost 50 year old woman thinking? 30 years difference in age and on top of that she is married? You are probably younger than her kids. I think she needs some byatch slapping from your mother.




Someone here went through the fantasy experience this wicked woman is offering you. He said it fkd up his life.

I hope he reads your post.

Good luck, kiddo

yes, and it should be work clothing as well...

My thoughts? I think I'll have another drink.

Seriously, your hesitation is the better part of you saying, "Don't do it!"

I hope she ties me up

Humm even though I would not even go for anyone with that age spread. To each their own...

The issues I see that needs a bit of thought is she is married. How would you feel if you was the other partner.. Not only that it's a man he may whoop up on you if he finds out or heck he might want to join you

Anytime you have a gut feeling with second thoughts there is a reason for it..

So up to you what you do... not my cup of tea nor my ballgame~~

Ya most likely I won't do it. It goes against my faith but then again it could be awesome since I'm a virgin and would like the experience

Let's see 30 year age spread here and personal trainer.. hmmm so she is wanting a young pup to make her feel good about herself. I hope you don't think it would be anything more. She is married and well I am willing to bet you aren't the first and would take be the last.
Hubby is the sad part. .. I have a SIL that would do this when my brother was working long hours. Sad really. Wouldn't believe anyone that she could or would ever do that the ugly part came in when he came home early. Lol

Your faith is against it then you know the answer


LT, not gonna happen and even personal trainers don't look quite as good with out the wrappings. I personally would run..
Bottom line in all honesty sounds like she is feeling her age and you are the current elixir to give her the fountain of youth boost.

I'm kind of ok with that. Losing my virginity to some with experience is not bad. I guess t comes down to morals ect

I probably won't do it

Age gap relationships are always a hot topic.

Excluding anyone being in a relationship or married, to someone else, I'd say date who you want. Enjoy each other's company. Learn from each other. Have fun and treat each other as you'd want to be treated. It's no one's business but each others. Life's too short think or worry about what others think.

She is probably pulling your leg. How do you know she is real and exists? Could be someone pulling a prank. Aim for someone your own age as you know this is a waste of time and will get no where. I once played games with a scammer for a bit of fun to annoy them because they are criminals breaking the law in fraudulent activity. I got him to meet me close to where I live for a coffee. He did not know I lived close by. He did not show up and I enjoyed a cup of coffee, cake and read the paper. Then I blasted him. The next email he was in the army overseas. Someone got their wires crossed. Exposed him and reported him. Gone from site. It was hilarious to catch them at their own game. You be careful though and don't play games with this disgusting adulterer.

Thanks for all that and the advice

so, where's the pic??

what goes around..comes around eventually. The age is no Biggy. .we are all here to enjoy this life but hurting others is not good.

What are you thinking? She's married!

My thoughts? Just what do you expect to get from her? Just sex or more?

A If it's just sex --> Get a moral compass and decide if it feels right to you to sexercise someone who is
- that much older
- married*: Is it right to do that? Get your own 'policy' on this.
- your personal trainer (conflicts of interest, not good!)

* Married: I for one don't mess with married/involved ppl. Some would say it's their choice to mess up their relationship, not yours, but it doesn't sit well with me. If I was married, I would like other to respect that just the same. Plus, I want to have the option to fall in love. Not there when someone's already involved.
Also, if they have so little respect for their partner, they're not going to respect me either.
Not that you have to have the same policy, just saying: GET your own policy on such matters.

B If you're hoping for more...
Not going to work. She's probably not even interested in that. Most ppl aren't willing to leave their marriage (money, security and usually they do love their partners)
The age gap is too big. So are differences in life experiences, emotional/mental development etc. Okay, some women get off on that. But I doubt it would be for a LTR. A 20 yr old guy is just a kid. Not to insult, just wait 4-6 yrs, look back, and you'll agree with me.
If you want a woman older than you, find someone around 28. Will be a helluva more mature than you, will give you that buzz too, but it's not that weird.