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Topic: Intimate Encounter
Twintidbits24 Joined Tue 07/28/15 Posts: 825	Wed 05/25/16 07:06 AM Edited by Twintidbits24 on Wed 05/25/16 07:07 AM
I personally appreciate the honesty of guys like that who make their intentions clear from the onset. I respect them way more than the guys who try fool women into believing that they are interested in a meaningful relationship so we can talk about this on my yacht... My profile has filters which block emailers who are looking for an intimate encounter , so clearly guys like that are not my cup of tea. But I respect their honesty. I always appreciate honesty If we both invite friends of ours , will the yacht offer still remain open Moe? you know some other women that wanna come? Can I invite myself in??

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 05/25/16 07:07 AM
I personally appreciate the honesty of guys like that who make their intentions clear from the onset. I respect them way more than the guys who try fool women into believing that they are interested in a meaningful relationship so we can talk about this on my yacht... My profile has filters which block emailers who are looking for an intimate encounter , so clearly guys like that are not my cup of tea. But I respect their honesty. I always appreciate honesty If we both invite friends of ours , will the yacht offer still remain open Moe? you know some other women that wanna come? Oh.. Lots of other women.... .....Accompanied by their husbands ofcourse ... ugh...

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 05/25/16 07:08 AM
I personally appreciate the honesty of guys like that who make their intentions clear from the onset. I respect them way more than the guys who try fool women into believing that they are interested in a meaningful relationship so we can talk about this on my yacht... My profile has filters which block emailers who are looking for an intimate encounter , so clearly guys like that are not my cup of tea. But I respect their honesty. I always appreciate honesty If we both invite friends of ours , will the yacht offer still remain open Moe? you know some other women that wanna come? Can I invite myself in??

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Wed 05/25/16 07:12 AM
ahhh the seedy underbelly of the dating scene in the olden days ya had to hit on a barfly numerous times and slather her with booze in the hopes that by closing time she might stumble out to your car with ya enter technology and now ya can post an ad for whatever ya want and chances are...there is a site where you can find it call girls, mail order brides, swingers parties, BDSM , fetish clubs...you name it and it is out there so this idea of sex..casual sex without commitment or emotional attachment is nothing new only now-a-days you don't have to take an ad out for it in the classifieds or at the end of a dirty magazine Personally I dont see whats so "seedy" about that world Tmom. Its an honest , transparent world ! In fact I would love to take the honesty of that " seedy " underworld and inject it into the mainstream world of relationships that you and I are living in. How many people in " the world we are living in" ,are pretending both to themselves and to others that they are "relationship " material. ... tossing around all the lingo.and surface gestures we associate with relationship intentions, but whose lifestyles are demonstrating something completely opposite? And that reality applies to wide number of both men and women. How many men and women have wasted precious time from their lives over people like that who are playing games? At least the "intimate encounter" person waves their freak flag high so the average civilien can run in the opposite direction if its not what they want, and save them from all the wasted time, energy and stress. hmmmm you may have a point..there may be a lot of online daters willing to put in time, effort for at least the first 3 dates in hopes of getting lucky

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 05/25/16 07:15 AM
ahhh the seedy underbelly of the dating scene in the olden days ya had to hit on a barfly numerous times and slather her with booze in the hopes that by closing time she might stumble out to your car with ya enter technology and now ya can post an ad for whatever ya want and chances are...there is a site where you can find it call girls, mail order brides, swingers parties, BDSM , fetish clubs...you name it and it is out there so this idea of sex..casual sex without commitment or emotional attachment is nothing new only now-a-days you don't have to take an ad out for it in the classifieds or at the end of a dirty magazine Personally I dont see whats so "seedy" about that world Tmom. Its an honest , transparent world ! In fact I would love to take the honesty of that " seedy " underworld and inject it into the mainstream world of relationships that you and I are living in. How many people in " the world we are living in" ,are pretending both to themselves and to others that they are "relationship " material. ... tossing around all the lingo.and surface gestures we associate with relationship intentions, but whose lifestyles are demonstrating something completely opposite? And that reality applies to wide number of both men and women. How many men and women have wasted precious time from their lives over people like that who are playing games? At least the "intimate encounter" person waves their freak flag high so the average civilien can run in the opposite direction if its not what they want, and save them from all the wasted time, energy and stress. hmmmm you may have a point..there may be a lot of online daters willing to put in time, effort for at least the first 3 dates in hopes of getting lucky thats at least 3 free dinners and drinks... maybe a movie or two...

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Wed 05/25/16 07:23 AM
ahhh the seedy underbelly of the dating scene in the olden days ya had to hit on a barfly numerous times and slather her with booze in the hopes that by closing time she might stumble out to your car with ya enter technology and now ya can post an ad for whatever ya want and chances are...there is a site where you can find it call girls, mail order brides, swingers parties, BDSM , fetish clubs...you name it and it is out there so this idea of sex..casual sex without commitment or emotional attachment is nothing new only now-a-days you don't have to take an ad out for it in the classifieds or at the end of a dirty magazine Personally I dont see whats so "seedy" about that world Tmom. Its an honest , transparent world ! In fact I would love to take the honesty of that " seedy " underworld and inject it into the mainstream world of relationships that you and I are living in. How many people in " the world we are living in" ,are pretending both to themselves and to others that they are "relationship " material. ... tossing around all the lingo.and surface gestures we associate with relationship intentions, but whose lifestyles are demonstrating something completely opposite? And that reality applies to wide number of both men and women. How many men and women have wasted precious time from their lives over people like that who are playing games? At least the "intimate encounter" person waves their freak flag high so the average civilien can run in the opposite direction if its not what they want, and save them from all the wasted time, energy and stress. hmmmm you may have a point..there may be a lot of online daters willing to put in time, effort for at least the first 3 dates in hopes of getting lucky Change that statement to include offline daters , and then you would have painted the full bleak picture. I have met ( and rejected) guys like that OFFLINE as well. They are everywhere ! Lolol

checkinguout12 Joined Sun 04/03/16 Posts: 198	Wed 05/25/16 08:20 AM
ahhh the seedy underbelly of the dating scene in the olden days ya had to hit on a barfly numerous times and slather her with booze in the hopes that by closing time she might stumble out to your car with ya enter technology and now ya can post an ad for whatever ya want and chances are...there is a site where you can find it call girls, mail order brides, swingers parties, BDSM , fetish clubs...you name it and it is out there so this idea of sex..casual sex without commitment or emotional attachment is nothing new only now-a-days you don't have to take an ad out for it in the classifieds or at the end of a dirty magazine Personally I dont see whats so "seedy" about that world Tmom. Its an honest , transparent world ! In fact I would love to take the honesty of that " seedy " underworld and inject it into the mainstream world of relationships that you and I are living in. How many people in " the world we are living in" ,are pretending both to themselves and to others that they are "relationship " material. ... tossing around all the lingo.and surface gestures we associate with relationship intentions, but whose lifestyles are demonstrating something completely opposite? And that reality applies to wide number of both men and women. How many men and women have wasted precious time from their lives over people like that who are playing games? At least the "intimate encounter" person waves their freak flag high so the average civilien can run in the opposite direction if its not what they want, and save them from all the wasted time, energy and stress. It is because I hate the wasted time spent trying to get to know someone that now when a man on here asks me just what I'm looking for in a man... I always reply that all I want is a man to be himself and not try to pretend to be something he's not... Your true self always comes out because you can't hide it forever.. If you are being your true self and we hit it off that's great.. If you aren't being your true self then I'm not falling for you I'm falling for you are pretending to be... It will never lead to a good outcome...

vinaynath1 Joined Tue 05/24/16 Posts: 2	Wed 05/25/16 08:26 AM
hahaha

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Wed 05/25/16 08:30 AM
I would check the stats again... I think the women tip the scales on that one. Dude, you should never tell women that they tip the scales. It's all that cream filling. I didn't know that women ate that many Twinkies.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Wed 05/25/16 09:18 AM
ahhh the seedy underbelly of the dating scene in the olden days ya had to hit on a barfly numerous times and slather her with booze in the hopes that by closing time she might stumble out to your car with ya enter technology and now ya can post an ad for whatever ya want and chances are...there is a site where you can find it call girls, mail order brides, swingers parties, BDSM , fetish clubs...you name it and it is out there so this idea of sex..casual sex without commitment or emotional attachment is nothing new only now-a-days you don't have to take an ad out for it in the classifieds or at the end of a dirty magazine Personally I dont see whats so "seedy" about that world Tmom. Its an honest , transparent world ! In fact I would love to take the honesty of that " seedy " underworld and inject it into the mainstream world of relationships that you and I are living in. How many people in " the world we are living in" ,are pretending both to themselves and to others that they are "relationship " material. ... tossing around all the lingo.and surface gestures we associate with relationship intentions, but whose lifestyles are demonstrating something completely opposite? And that reality applies to wide number of both men and women. How many men and women have wasted precious time from their lives over people like that who are playing games? At least the "intimate encounter" person waves their freak flag high so the average civilien can run in the opposite direction if its not what they want, and save them from all the wasted time, energy and stress. It is because I hate the wasted time spent trying to get to know someone that now when a man on here asks me just what I'm looking for in a man... I always reply that all I want is a man to be himself and not try to pretend to be something he's not... Your true self always comes out because you can't hide it forever.. If you are being your true self and we hit it off that's great.. If you aren't being your true self then I'm not falling for you I'm falling for you are pretending to be... It will never lead to a good outcome... i learn alot more about a persons intentions from what they do rather than what they say. In the dating scene, alot of people are experienced enough to say all the right things, checkingyouout but their actions over time is what teaches me all that I need to know.

lalo310 Joined Wed 04/06/16 Posts: 6	Wed 05/25/16 01:14 PM
I'm all for it. Open to it

lalo310 Joined Wed 04/06/16 Posts: 6	Wed 05/25/16 01:14 PM
I'm all for it. Open to it

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Wed 05/25/16 03:13 PM
It can work well for women and men depending on so many things. I feel though that women may walk into this believing that's what they want......but.....women are much more emotional than men and may not expect to become emotionally attached. This is where it's easier for men. For myself personally...I would not at the risk of becoming attached (I know myself) and would not be fair for the guy if it happened.

RustyKitty Joined Fri 05/15/15 Posts: 1601	Wed 05/25/16 06:11 PM
What are women's views on this interest since more men than women are looking for an intimate encounter on here? Women do not need a date site for 'intimate encounter'. There are always men willing to accommodate. ain't that the truth....lol

Ariana Joined Sun 11/17/19 Posts: 18	Sun 01/05/20 06:31 PM
You guys are funny. But I couldn't interpret your comment on it being women who tip the scales. Like in what respect are they more or less than men? In wanting intimate encounters? Personally I've thought it would be fun, but I'm less concerned about being hurt emotionally as I am about being hurt physically. Even if the pre-encounter conversation went well, who knows if the guy is actually someone who gets off by hurting people or will refuse to wear a condom when the time comes? I have seriously considered hooking up a couple of times, but I've decided it's not worth the risk.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sun 01/05/20 07:49 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Sun 01/05/20 07:54 PM
I've never ever seen a woman that wanted an intimate encounter on here, or anywhere after 1990. I guess I'm very isolated. I know it goes on, probably all around me, but I never see it. I've seen scammers advertise it, but they don't email me. box is empty. maybe that's a good thing.

kkk Joined Sat 01/04/20 Posts: 1	Tue 01/07/20 01:07 AM
really

Tavi Joined Sun 07/14/19 Posts: 3	Tue 01/07/20 01:20 AM
Intimate Encounter What are women's views on this interest since more men than women are looking for an intimate encounter on here? My view would be from the apartment building 4 blocks down. With binoculars. dead laughing 🤣

Tavi Joined Sun 07/14/19 Posts: 3	Tue 01/07/20 01:24 AM
You guys are funny. But I couldn't interpret your comment on it being women who tip the scales. Like in what respect are they more or less than men? In wanting intimate encounters? Personally I've thought it would be fun, but I'm less concerned about being hurt emotionally as I am about being hurt physically. Even if the pre-encounter conversation went well, who knows if the guy is actually someone who gets off by hurting people or will refuse to wear a condom when the time comes? I have seriously considered hooking up a couple of times, but I've decided it's not worth the risk. brovo. that will be all!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Tue 01/07/20 04:06 AM
I've never ever seen a woman that wanted an intimate encounter on here, or anywhere after 1990. I guess I'm very isolated. I know it goes on, probably all around me, but I never see it. I've seen scammers advertise it, but they don't email me. box is empty. maybe that's a good thing. that's a really good thing. spam nation all in this app/site ridiculous It is a free site. Of course it shall have its downside. You just need to use your settings well.