what do you usually think when you read this
in a profile..



or when you read

I need an understanding woman

or an understanding man..

I think they are still attached, and have convinced themselves that they 'can't' end it.

And that if that is the case they will be full of drama and looking for someone to rescue them
....but that's just me

Do not pass go, do not collect $200.00...

Hhhaa.. RUN.. Drama, drama, drama, or too much baggage, needy or too controlling.

Still going through the breakup not over it... maybe due to divorce still in process never started, still living with them ect.. Or lots of fighting going on over the breakup~~


Enough for me to back off..

Generic "dating website speak".....I understand that they didn't know what else to write

.....or, " I'll put this down down now, its sounds good, and change it later" and never do.

....or, yea, have some dramatic stuff going on.

* A hint that they are still having problems with their sex change. " Are you understanding " haha!

they need someone to understand they are crazy, or something worse...

it's complicated to me ....usually means


I am still very much married

and I don't wanna leave
the wife will get the house


but yet...I want someone new

I so agree with you...

To me it means separated or divorced but still sharing residence together...
This happiness was also mine in both marriages.

Whenever I see this I just figure it is me understanding way more bologna than I am ever going to find worth what they are offering as a relationship. And that is pretty much how whoever left them or they are trying to ditch is going to feel.

To me...

Its complicated....
Means the person is in a love triangle


I need an understandingman/woman....
Means they want a mind reader

Court system is backed up or , one of the other is just playing dealaying taticks. Usely for monetary reasons .

I usually think "pictures nice, profile's annoying."

Because, IME, what it means in practical terms is "I'm choosing to do something I know is wrong, what other people would ostracize me for, but I don't want to admit it's wrong, and I don't want to be judged for doing something wrong, and I want what I want when I want it so it's not like I'm not going to do it.
I've made it complicated in my own head in order to confuse myself so I can pursue what I really want without really having to think about it, or change, or see myself differently for doing something wrong, I have to see myself as a good person."



Then I think:
- their pictures are lies or they are hiding something.
- they have a fetish.
- they have a handicap.
- they are looking to start a fantasy and they've already filled the role as damsel in distress.
- they're already in a relationship.
- they've already begun the process of sabotaging any potential success at dating or relationships.

Gut feeling say no don't go there. it's not for you.

Exactly!

I think that is nice wished I was that.For sure but I am not sure I want to even touch it.

Umm. I thought it meant.. they're having a hard time using there a sexual toy because it was complicated. And they need someone more understanding of such devices then themselves.....lol.. apparently I had it all wrong..

It's complicated = you will not understand unless you are openminded