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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? The delivery of the flirt matters more to me than how a person looks. It is just the same as a man who is not that handsome would fare more than that of a handsome guy who doesn't know how to deliver his speech; but of course it depends on the situation. But generally flirting per se, I love to flirt most especially with witty ones and then see who gets burned first....Lolzzzzz 
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How ya doin.. |
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In my experience, flirting is never a good thing, it only means that someone wants something from me like money, labor, or answers to the homework that's due in an hour. If there was any other flirting that has been directed at me in the past I was ether not aware of it or to stupid to figure it out. Nahhhh I don't want anything from you but I think you need more lessons on it, in case it may cross your paths again.... Am I flirting now???
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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? Without Flirting this Earth would just be a bunch of zombies (no interactions, no reactions, no spice, no life, etc.. So Flirting is "FUN" as long as it is done at the right time, at the right moment, at the right place and in the right situation...  
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Edited by
peggy122
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Wed 04/27/16 07:37 AM
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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? The delivery of the flirt matters more to me than how a person looks. It is just the same as a man who is not that handsome would fare more than that of a handsome guy who doesn't know how to deliver his speech; but of course it depends on the situation. But generally flirting per se, I love to flirt most especially with witty ones and then see who gets burned first....Lolzzzzz
I agree Twin 
Flirting is no fun if the person lacks wit, and the delivery makes sooooo much of an impact. Even guys who I don't find so good looking have pulled me in with their witty flirting. They have to be smelling good though. I won't be able to giggle and blush through the fumes 
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How ya doin.. I know you have no problems in this department Doc. Your work here is done ..
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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? Without Flirting this Earth would just be a bunch of zombies (no interactions, no reactions, no spice, no life, etc.. So Flirting is "FUN" as long as it is done at the right time, at the right moment, at the right place and in the right situation...
And I think its really important that single people enjoy harmless flirtation on a weekly basis. I think it makes you feel less alienated and alone as some single people are inclined to feel |
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Some people are better at it than others.
I gotta say, if I feel instantly attracted to a man, physically, I'd regret not asking him if he's up for a night out. So I might aswell ask. Otherwise I'm shooting myself in the foot. I wouldn't be doing myself any favours by not acknowledging him. |
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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? The delivery of the flirt matters more to me than how a person looks. It is just the same as a man who is not that handsome would fare more than that of a handsome guy who doesn't know how to deliver his speech; but of course it depends on the situation. But generally flirting per se, I love to flirt most especially with witty ones and then see who gets burned first....Lolzzzzz
I agree Twin
Flirting is no fun if the person lacks wit, and the delivery makes sooooo much of an impact. Even guys who I don't find so good looking have pulled me in with their witty flirting. They have to be smelling good though. I won't be able to giggle and blush through the fumes
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha....My Smurfy Sisss...You're such a Wit as well...I myself can't stand it too...I will drop dead right thereon Lolzzzz....Well...we have bunch of those in here and even if they shower with perfumesss...it still stinks but in their country That Makes Them Manly!!!! Phew!!!
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I enjoy flirting, it's part of getting to know someone. I also see it as being intelligent and humorous when done properly with someone of a like-mind. It's an art-form when done in that way. I don't see it as a head on attraction if someone flirts with me, it's simply their nature. Some of the ladies in the forum are wonderful flirts when they want to be, and i see that for what it is...just a giggle. Sadly not everyone will see it that way if they don't like or understand it, but life would be pretty boring if we all thought the same way... 
Ah yes. The intelligence mixed with humor is the art of it in my opinion too Justfun 
And yes some people will see it for more than it is, but at the end of the day actions are the things that confirm feelings and once a person doesnt follow through with significant action, flirtation is merely smoke... not a fire
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Some people are better at it than others. I gotta say, if I feel instantly attracted to a man, physically, I'd regret not asking him if he's up for a night out. So I might aswell ask. Otherwise I'm shooting myself in the foot. I wouldn't be doing myself any favours by not acknowledging him. . I would want to see if the guy shows signs of being attracted to me first before I pull off a decisive gesture like yours Mary , but I have nothing but respect for your courage 
I guess your life motto reads "Nothing ventured, nothing gained "
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Flirting can be so much fun, whether by words or gestures. But in the SINGLE WORLD, at what point do you find flirting overbearing , excessive, or sleazy/slutty? Does the person's attractiveness affect how receptive you are to their flirting or is it the delivery of the flirt that counts more than the person's looks? The delivery of the flirt matters more to me than how a person looks. It is just the same as a man who is not that handsome would fare more than that of a handsome guy who doesn't know how to deliver his speech; but of course it depends on the situation. But generally flirting per se, I love to flirt most especially with witty ones and then see who gets burned first....Lolzzzzz
I agree Twin
Flirting is no fun if the person lacks wit, and the delivery makes sooooo much of an impact. Even guys who I don't find so good looking have pulled me in with their witty flirting. They have to be smelling good though. I won't be able to giggle and blush through the fumes
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha....My Smurfy Sisss...You're such a Wit as well...I myself can't stand it too...I will drop dead right thereon Lolzzzz....Well...we have bunch of those in here and even if they shower with perfumesss...it still stinks but in their country That Makes Them Manly!!!! Phew!!!
Well those guys had better stay away from us Twin. We ladies wanna fall for a guy because of what is in his heart . .... not what is under his armpits. 
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I enjoy flirting, it's part of getting to know someone. I also see it as being intelligent and humorous when done properly with someone of a like-mind. It's an art-form when done in that way. I don't see it as a head on attraction if someone flirts with me, it's simply their nature. Some of the ladies in the forum are wonderful flirts when they want to be, and i see that for what it is...just a giggle. Sadly not everyone will see it that way if they don't like or understand it, but life would be pretty boring if we all thought the same way...
Ah yes. The intelligence mixed with humor is the art of it in my opinion too Justfun
And yes some people will see it for more than it is, but at the end of the day actions are the things that confirm feelings and once a person doesnt follow through with significant action, flirtation is merely smoke... not a fire
Well that's what I mean by needing action to confirm the significance of the flirting. If ultimately it doesnt lead to regular phone contact and more importantly meeting in person, then I wouldn't attach any weight to the flirting lol |
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Already then...meet me behind the scenes...come alone...lol... Sure. Im walking with my can of mace 
What? You have make up for me....I dont think I need any...lol.. Well the good news is that you may never experience it depending on your behavior What good news...I learn from experience ya know, I will carry a can myself ... Thanks for the reminder.... Lmao!!! I am always well behaved ... I even say please... |
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S'more pathetic attempts to ~Flirt~
or, 
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S'more pathetic attempts to ~Flirt~
or,
There is no way I'd tell a Lady I liked her more than my toast. Not even Jennifer Aniston 
That is simply beyond the pale. |
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S'more pathetic attempts to ~Flirt~
or,
There is no way I'd tell a Lady I liked her more than my toast. Not even Jennifer Aniston
That is simply beyond the pale. toast huh?
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I have more thoughts on this topic , but didnt want to start a new thread.
I wonder if perhaps we are leading people on unecessarily when we flirt for the fun of it , not knowing if we want something more, while sensing that the other person DEFINITELY wants something more? Or should everyone lighten up and not take it too seriously ? 
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Locks his fingers together and cracks his knuckles... now! a topic I know a little something about... stand back everyone..
Let the master do his bidding... Ohhh... wait a minute!! The topics said flirting!! not farting!!!.. I'm out then!!.lmao..
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Thank God you re-read the topic doc. We would have been in for a rude awakening
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