from my experiences i can tell, he will either not reply or just become rude lol

there are ones sending mail with a telephone numebr in.
they are directly blocked too.



also lately there is this saying: "this is my whatsapp if you want to talk"

what whatsapp? what is a whatsapp?? u are asking for my whatsapp??!! that is a telephone number which you think are hiding by saying whatsapp. and when u name it "whatsapp" instead of "tel. number".. of course!! i immidiately add it ! because i am a super stupid :d

thanks zookeeperson! I am sure there are individuals all over the world breathing a collective sigh of relief that oceans are protecting them from being exposed to the likes of me :p

Bad profiles are so pervasive it has gotten to be expected. Disappointing because a good profile is not that difficult. Lots of pointers and if you actually read what you have posted you can edit most mistakes. If you would not date someone that writes what you have why put it up there?

I think what vaguely peeves me is that if you are going to take time to put one up, why be ignorant about it and punish yourself? Bad profile is no skin off my nose if anything it helps me because brings the serious contenders to me. But really bad profiles and the scammer profiles (which are SOOOH obvious) do not bug me. The delete button is so easy. It is like thanks for letting me get you out of the way. I will spend my time on the people who invest in the process.

If you want to be skipped the sure fire ones are;

No Photo. Sorry if your life is so dramatic you can not put up a photo I don't need you in mine. If you are famous you can't deal with it why should I? If you are hung up about being seen on this site then don't be here. You have just said you are pretty much saying I do not have enough value to show up in your elitist world so you are sneaking into mine to troll; so get lost.

A lead shot that does not include at the very least a limited smile. I hate having my picture taken every bit as much as anyone else but if I am picking a photo to introduce myself to another person (Not to mention the world) basic manners and common sense say I make a congenial first impression.

Vulgar screen name or banner. Not funny or cute. In or out of context. Too stupid for me to waste my time.

Looking for intimate encounter. One it is so ignorant to even say because if things go really well that is eventually a given and it says you have zero focus or ability if you are that desperate to say it. If that is your only goal I know you are going to be boring as a board.

Announcing you are looking for honest, loyal, real people. Ok right there you have labeled yourself a failure and that you have consistently picked losers. Stupid and no common sense is not attractive. I figure if you are chronically being played or ditched by devious means you are either too vague to know you are not the one or you are one of the people others are so desperate to get away from they will resort to any escape possible. I back away and run the other direction. Even if you are not violent who wants to live with walking wounded and spend the first few dates proving you are what you should be as a given.

The next one is a little tougher but I have learn over time the phrase " Looking for God Fearing" is not a person with Christian values it is a person who has a radical agenda and you are signing up to be their congregation of ONE if you go out on a date. Often it will be a person who is so submissive to doctrine or wants you to be that so this is not even remotely an equal relationship. And they are way to caught up in recruiting to actually see others aa persons of faith. It is kind of insulting. You know if you don't meet their restrictive definition you are dead meet once they have failed to convert you. And you have ZERO chance of actually growing together in faith.

Any where in the basic profile queries it says "no answer". Common theses are not deeply personal questions and sure are not rocket science. If you can not come up with a minimum response why should I bother. To me no answer is am assumption the worst answer is the truth. You really want to choke yourself on that?

I Will Tell You Later. No you won't. You have already wasted my time I am not going to give you another chance. If your communication skills are so poor you have to make me come back for a simple answer there are a dozen people in my mail list that just got in front of you. If you are so new, less than 24 hours, and so eager to poach views you can't make a minimum profile I am not going to respond to you. I am not that desperate that I have to maul you the minute you walk in the door.

That is pretty much the same as posting "Have any questions just ask". If you KNOW you have left most of the critical information out and are expecting me to do the heavy lifting to dig answers out of you then you have made yourself resemble a toothache. Not my idea of a fun date or a relationship that will be anything but a drag.

IF, and this is a big IF, you did not ask for the information my profile says I want to know about you when you read mine and CHOSE to contact me you pretty much want to get down to brass tacks and tell me. Other wise I assume you are trying to slide something by I have already told you will not fly. I respect Everyone's right not to put it all out their on a profile but when you contact me the game changes. You want to be and exception you are going to have to make a really good case for it.

No interests listed. Give ne a break you are and adult and if you have zero personal insight to have interests why am I going to make the effort to contact you or respond to you if you contact me? If you only put generic nouns with no verbs you sound boring or wishy washy. Just because you have and interest does not exclude others but plant a few seeds for connection or at least conversation. I don't know about others but I am not looking for carbon copy of myself in all areas. Your interests might just be what is your hook.

You must lists do not bug me. Everyone gets boundaries but if you want to edit someone make sure it is a criteria that really matters to you because I take them literally.

And I don't take orders well so if you have crossed over to sounding like a dictator even if I match your you must list I am likely to walk away because I don't like living in a box where coloring outside of the lines is never going to be accepted.

I get life happens and I don't go in thinking I can maintain perfection or demand it. I am still "passable" in the looks department ect. but even when I was Young, a "Brick House", knocking the world dead; the people who were looking for a trophy were deleted and still are. If I have to enhance you then you are lacking what I am looking for.

i have reported that profile with the fake photo - which i mentioned above
and that is already deactivated
the admin is so fast, they must be really well.

By the way Msharmony... I totally agree with all you said about the complaints about others and the boasting in profiles as well as the shirtless pics , but I wanna say something more about the pics ... I give men credit for refusing to hide behind the gloss of photoshopped pics, but is it necessary for them to select the worst picture of their life as their profile pic?... Plagued with horrible lighting, taken at the most unflattering angles, punctuated by grimaces and squinting instead of smiles. Come oooon!!! For better or worse, first impressions are impactful. If you were selling your house, even if it wasn't the most impressive structure to behold, you would make the effort to make it look as presentable as it could look for potential buyers. Why can't people invest that amount of effort in the presentation of themselves to the viewing public especially when the viewing public is on an international scale ? I know people have a right to showcase whatever look they want and I respect that, but I am just offering some food for thought... And by the way, I also have some mortifying pics of myself, which I only pull out at Halloween to scare away naughty children :p

Lol. Don't mind me. I'm probably too harsh. That makes sense, what you are doing. Nice to hear that perspective, actually.

One time someone messaged me that he had 10 inches for me.



Blocked.

great point again !!

half an hour ago someone mailed me "sex"
ahahaha
of course blocked after a very polite reply lol

actually on an other site we have a topic where we copy these kind of messages, and we give hints about the profile. sometimes we write down the user name as well. normally it is forbiddden to put a nickname down that way, you get banned. but as the subject is quite gentle that the female users are getting offended, admin is quite "not seing" when we put the nicknames down. a kind of girls' cooperation. helps a lot.

Turn off to me is when I read a freaking novel in their headline. I mean....don't tell me you like long walks on the beach. Be truthful. Tell me how kinky you are. 2016.....it's all about the honesty.

lol lol lol

* Nicknames like: Mine (grrrrrr) Ok-ok-ok I am dumb at times

ahahahhahaa how did you manage to see this post in between all the others lol. spot on

Damn it Peggy, there's no like button here, some of these comments are brilliant. :)

Small smile from me. I hope, haha!

I agree with all of your pet peeves PacificStar48, but in trying to see things from others' perspectives, I really do suspect that some people have legitimate reasons for presenting half-assed profiles to the public. I have read complaints by people who do create substantial profiles that their profiles are often never read , which might ultimately discourage some from making the effort to create one, which I can empathise with somewhat. But to people like that, I would urge them to look at the bigger picture. the larger goal is about the impression you are creating via your profile ,as opposed the import of the information you are supplying in the profile. Impressions are soooo impactful in the world we live in . Few people invest in products that arent packaged impressively and this principle applies to people as well. Also I think people have a legitimate concern about their pics being stolen and superimposed against the profile of a scammer. The photoless profiles dont always have bad motives. it is a smart strategy of protection for some. And for those people, I urge them to at least supply one decent pic even if it is from a somewhat distant angle. It is still reassuring to the viewer in some way without putting your privacy in too much danger . Basically I am saying that the people with inadequate profiles are not always the losers they may be perceived as and sometimes have very legitimate reasons for their vagueness and they shouldnt be condemned for that but we also have the right to our likes and dislikes and the people with vague profiles make it challenging for themselves in attracting people of interest .

You're adorable and your little dog, too!