Poor Baby.

Someone help the dude and put him out of his misery.
Can we get some google sites for him. Happy new year No1

I thknk the whole dating thing is just a name or label that puts pressure sub consciously on us as soon as the wors is said date mmmm.. Ive bein on my own two years now and see realshionships every minute of everyday and i can see it choking eva pedson in it to the point i wana just say oih u both r fake and to scarrd to admit u have destroyed each other but cant seoerate as brain is saying this is all i know!! Im guyted because im lonely now adter all this time and i cant see how im going to get past a so calked first date because of pear pressure others put on us certain words to make our reaction different its all manipulation man

Hmm...^^ says the man on a dating site ..

I am fun to be with. I love to laugh and I love making other people laugh.
I'm not high maintenance. I eat at McDonalds and I love KFC.
I look good and a great kisser.

However...
I am a loner by nature. I like my space.
I am a very jealous woman. You cheat... you dead.
I like my own bathroom. You use my bathroom, you better be just visiting.

So, would I date myself?

Well yeah! I'm a great kisser. Duh!!!

Would I date me? Yes, For a while. I've got some really good qualities. I'm a great listener. I'm sympathetic. I'm good hearted to a fault. By nature, I'm a giver. I'm an animal lover and very protective of those I love.

My bad quality that seems to turn some people off, I'm a calls it like I sees it type. I say what's on my mind. I don't have much of a filter. I have very little patience for stupidity. "Stupid" people send me from 0 to 100 in seconds. I just have this thing about "stupid" and "idiotic" people. Me and "stupid" just don't get along.

I'm not certain that I'd date myself [as in a romantic liaison] in a narcissistic context but it sure would be cool to have a close friend with many of my own qualities & even-"the quirks" ;}

Hmmm, I love animals and children. You would have to stop me from adopting all of them or else live in an orphanage/animal kingdom.

I despise cooking, time can be better spent and what is wrong with sandwiches.

If I need chocolate....you would have to go out and get me some no matter what time of the day or night it is.

I love my alone time, thinking, creating, learning on the net. If you were insecure, that would do your head in.

I am straight to the point and need to learn to be more gentler as I think I am too blunt at times.

Try to control me, lie to me, manipulate me, cheat on me and I am gone in a flash....

Guess I will be single for a while lol. Better get more cats!!!

I think I am in lust.

I honestly don't know.

I'd probably do what most guys in my life have done. Date me for a while and hang around for the great sex until the other me got bored of me.

Every time I read this thread it makes me think and wonder what I need to change, but apart from withholding sex (which I'm already doing) I haven't come up with any other ideas as yet.

Why do guys get bored? I don't know, maybe because I am able to do things without them, I'm not dependent on them. Maybe because I speak my mind and they can only take so much of that. These aren't things I'm going to change though, it just makes it harder to find the right guy!!

so, you finally succumbed to your carnal desires....

I would date me because I'm very caring and supportive. I really believe in the person I date and trust them with all my heart. I may be a little stubborn but I'm just very organized and determined. And animals love me.

xoxo to me!

If I was a "different person" then I wouldn't really be dating myself.

I would be a different person dating some other person.

My impression would be based on who I was as that "different person."

And I can't give you that impression...because I'm not them...I'm me.


That's for the other person to judge for themselves.
What one person finds as a good point another will see as a quirk/fault or failing.

It doesn't really matter what I think my good points or what my quirks/faults may be.

Trying to answer that simply translates, at best, to "what are you arrogant about? Where lie your insecurities?"


Why do you think they would affect "anyone" you lived with?
Do you believe there is you...and everybody else, and everybody else is the same?


Most people aren't going to give a crap about this at all.
Only if you start expecting them to be the same way, or start judging them for not being the same way, or start passive aggressively trying to manipulate them to be the same way.

Then it's not really the "quirk/fault" of being a "tidy freak," but the "quirk/fault" of being unaccepting, or maybe a control freak, or manipulative and game playing.

Even then, if you were all of those things, you could still find someone that would be okay with your unacceptance because maybe they have daddy issues and a need to constantly work on being accepted and lose interest if they actually achieve it, or maybe you find someone that wants to be controlled, or someone that likes being manipulated or played games with for drama and validating importance.

Then those aren't quirks and faults at all, but "good points" from their perspective.

FFS Tom. Lighten up a little.

Just what I was thinking!!

Hi

Dang I would have to say yes... or look like a total moron and yet.
I am not so sure I would... honestly.
I have some faults that drive me crazy...
I am very literal and analytical at times.
I can be brutally honest with myself I am not sure if I could take some I date being as honest with me, that might be a bit much to take.

I am a neat freak and have no plans to change it. And yet
I am caring and compassionate, loyal, steadfast.

So dang I have no clue what I would do honestly

Hmmmmm... I think it would be a challenge to date me because I take my time getting acquainted with someone before giving my heart and body completely , but once we have passed that hurdle... HELL YEAH!!! I would totally date me!

I am messy , indisciplined and terrible with time, which I admit is unattractive but on the flipside, I am fastidious about paying all my bills on time and I always live within my means. I'm fun to go out with and be physical with , but I'm also really cool to chill at home and do nothing with. I'm never too proud to admit when I am wrong and I'm supportive of my partners dreams and accepting of his flaws once he is honest about them from the beginning. And I'm totally cool with him hanging with his friends both male and female and taking his cave time when he needs it because I am free spirited and require those conditions myself.