what to do about a family member that only uses you?
I like them,but my life is suffering from being used,
because of this family member,(no names)I lost,
my house,land,and a good truck,from an argument we had...
I just gave in,and left it behind,now this person is enjoying th "Fruits
of MY labors",and I had to start over from scratch.
so, how do I regain what was lost,without screwing myself,
or hurting more family,or just let it go,again???
th reason for th fight was of "their being selfish,and lazy"..M.

Well now without the whole story its really hard to give an honest
answer and I feel as if there is a whole lot more to this story than
meets the eye.

HERES THE ANSWER..............let it go. Dont dwell on it because if
THEY DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU THEN YOU SHOULDNT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOU>
DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE THE FUCK ON. there whew that felt good lol. lots
of love bro just needed to let loose on oneo f this fkn topics and
yours was the newest lol.

oh i meant then "YOU" shouldnt give a fuck about "THEM" lol sry

only left out names to save th feelings of other family who might see
this,as I love my family,but do not like one of them right now,we are
tight,th rest of th family,and I ,but will do harm if I call who it
is...they all know of this exsisting problem,but have on th
"Blinders",and don't want to talk it over with me,nor th other,so as not
to be caught in th middle.
this problem troubles me GREATLY,and I need some advice...
what to do about it, if anything at all???..........M.

First of all why would someone walk out of there own house if it was
there's and leave there truck there? Don't make no since unless it was
an ex that had the kids got the house and truck now do ya catch my
drift?


Ohhh dabad ya are too funny love it you do seem to break up all the BS
it is refreshing at times lmao

since you alowed her to have sexual contact with yourself and other men
she feels that she can do anything and get away with it I would fight to
get back half of everything.

i like that 63!! u r right on!

ok i missed something where does it say that there was sexual contact I
guess I am reading something different the everyone else sry my mistake
you crazy people.

secual contact with a family member?????????
WTF??????????????????????????????????????????
lol i hope you at least took time to grab the jello before you left.
CORRECT THIS MIKE !!!!!!!!!! im really confused here

dabad ya think you are I have no clue what they are talking about
nothing said that it was a man or woman and nothing said about sexual
anything or hell I would have seen that someone is lost but for once I
don't think its us lmao

LMAO!!!

"LADY63" YOUR HEAD IS UP YOUR ASS SHUT TH FUCK UP YOU NASTY BITCH...YOU
MAKE ME SICK TO THINK YOU WOULD DO THAT TO YOUR FAMILY???

I DO NOT REFER TO MY EX...NO SEX IS NOT THE ISSUE HERE AND IF YOU THINK
SO,THEN YOUR HEAD IS UP YOUR ASS TOO

well thank god for that lol i was hopin i didnt miss anything .

wow... whats going on?

Now that I have calmed down from th nasty thoughts of th misguided
few...
sex is NOT th issue...gross fool...if you had a half of a brain,and
listen to th story...instead of thinking with your...whatever it is you
think with...you would know this...
"Lady63" and I use th term "Lady"very loosely,for with thoughts like
that...YOU ARE NO LADY,BUT MORE PERVERTED THAN YOU ACCUSED ME OF...now
just sit it down,and pay attention,BEFORE you stick your foot in it
AGAIN.

Michael,
I understand exactly what you mean,
something similar happened to me with
my sisters.
I had to move on and take a lost,
but in the end they will see that realy they are
who lost realy, because they wont be able to do
it again to you, and Im sure that the day they need
you, they will be sorry for f..ing with you.
because they lost you as a family and as a friend
believe it or not it will hurt them one day

i think some one wasn't payin attention to what you folks where sayin

1313 ..look out for your own but and tell those family members to pull
up their boot straps and support themselves ..Dont give them nothin they
haven't worked for..