WELL Michael seems like the ones having the issue need to call a truce
at family gathers. How do you do that show up at there door and talk one
on one and call a truce only way the issue can be dealt with. But.. no
cussing keep a level tone speak your mind and say that is all I have to
say I will leave now just want a truce on family gatherings.

you should ask family excatlly what you have posted here ,tell them you
want to put that topic to rest and you need their strength and support
.there will be a family member who will understand .

well,,,I have asked those to let this go,but they still drag it on,on,on
and on...how do I,,if any,,,put a stop to it?
this person is more hard headed,and stubborn,and insists on
telling that side of it,without letting th rest, hear my side.
and th rest do not want in th middle,so they just let this person rant
on,and only half listen to that side,as they all know I am a good
hearted man,but none of us can shut this "person" up....??? help???

then on the next family gathering, after everyone is present...

take a group vote..

"anyone wanna hear this story YET AGAIN?"

they'll tell ya yes or no

when they say no...then it'll be done

yes,,,I have had talks with "some" family members,and we agree,this has
to stop,but none lift a finger to do so,
basicly,leave it up to me,so,,,what now?
yes,this problem has been on-going as of 2002,and I see no end in
sight,going on another year,,,??? help???

Michael, when the vote is unanamous...this bad seed won't have any
arguement to hold water in

maybe because it is you who has to
forgive and move on
just let it go because is not
doing you any good, michael
you and only you have to finish this
I know is hard but for your sanity is
best to forgive man.

I Thank You ALL,who have been constructive in helping me with this
issue,I will try to do my best ,the next time this comes up,to tell this
"person"to just let it go,I will most likely get more "hate mail" from
people about this if I say who this person is,in this open forum,so I
will keep this to myself,,,
those who know,,,thanx for being shhhh! about it for me to find honest
answers to my problem...thanx again...M.

no problem Michael..it's what we're here for ;)

listen here micheal you ass hole I will speak when and if I chose okay
freak man.you brought all this on yourself as I said before you gave her
just what all she wanted so you desire everything your getting in
return.and by the way I had another lady contact me about the same shit
you done to me soooooooooo lay the hell off the ladies and your sex shit
because not all want to know your past with sex or what you want in sex!
You have a dam problem and you will not be my problem now you started
this shit with me now and I shall end it!!!

hi lady iM BACK. WANNA CHAT?

I seen you rambill

*sigh*

here we go again :|

"Lady63",,,to you I will say this...you know nothinbg of me,
nor my life,only what you ASSUME,you do not have the right to talk to,or
about me in this fashion,PLEASE STOP!
this "issue"had nothing to do with sex nor my ex,,,so stop assuming that
you know or care,as I care not about YOU.
You had the opertunity to tell me that it was none of my business,but
you did not...Therefore,you may just keep your nose from my behind,and
my personal life,as you still have the hotts for me,and you are just
jealous of that fact...
It was YOU who wanted to chat in the first place,after we had a few
emails back and forth,if you say otherwise,,,you will be lying. I think
you are the most foul mouthed woman I have ever met,online,and if you
review your own words,,,you have me confused from another man,to you,I
say again,BUTT OUT OF MY LIFE

soaps on!

OH MICHEAL
YOUR SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FUCKING WRONG NUMBER ONE YOU HAVE IT ALL BACKWARDS
YOU WANTED TO CHAT WITH ME AND WE CHATED NP UNTIL ALL YOU WANTED TO TALK
ABOUT WAS YOUR SEX LIFE AND HOW YOU TURNNED THE LADIES ON.(NUMBER 2)I
NEVER EVER WANTED YOUR ASS LMFAO I DONT LIKE YOU FOR THE RESAONS I HAVE
GIVEN AND IF I WANTED YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP OR FRIENDSHIP I WOULD HAVE
TO GET MY HEAD CHECKED OUT FOR BEING SO DAM DUMB.(NUMBER3)WHEN ANOTHER
LADY COMES TO ME TELLING ME THAT YOU DONE THE SAME TO HER AND WONDERING
IF SHE'D DONE SOMETHING WRONG TO MAKE YOU BE SO FREE ON THE SEXUAL SHIT
AND ALL ABOUT YOUR X- PLUS ALSO SICK AS I AM WITH MEN LIKE YOU THEN I
WILL SPEAK MY MIND WEITHER YOU LIKE THIS OR NOT!
(NUMBER4)I WILL ONLY SAY IF YOU WASNT TALKING ABOUT YOUR WIFE THEN I
MISS UNDERSTOOD BUT YOU SHALL NOT TALK TOO ME IN THAT DAM TONE AND ME
STAND BACK AND TAKE YOUR CRAP.YOU NEED TO GET YOUR LIFE IN ORDER WITH A
FEW THINGS AND STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR OWN DAM ACTIONS!!

I assume nothing,and wish you would forget that you ever
contacted me in the first place,so just drop it, please....
do not reply to this as your opnion does not matter to me....M.

MICHEAL GO GET SOME DAM HELP AND GET THE FUCK OFF OF ME YOU FREAK

oh,puuuleeeeze!grow up...

lmfao you wouldnt know the differents at all